Originally posted by #1StepMom
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perfect answer but one more question/suggestion. Has or will the child ever be told about the circumstances on how he was conceived? I am thinking that it may be best if he isn't and the less people know the better. I would worry about his self-esteem etc if he finds out the only reason he is here is because there was a bet involved and dad was drunk. I am guessing this wasn't one of your husbands shining moments and if alcohol makes him do things like this then maybe he should be kept away from it.
Kudos to you and everyone else involved for making the child feel loved and wanted even though he was a surprise. I just cannot use the word mistake when talking about a child.
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