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Old 03-04-2007, 03:33 PM
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I sort of see where workingthruit is coming from. It may be that there is nothing you can do. My ex's new wife also despises me but your guess is as good as mine as to why. I think just by virtue of being "the first wife" I am evil incarnate. I don't imagine any gesture I made would be well received. I do try to be extra "nice" to her children. I make sure my kids take gifts for the other kids for birthdays, Christmas, Easter etc and if I see them I make sure I am on my best behaviour. But the best those gestures have got me to this point is some sort of comment to my children about how I spend my money. There is no pleasing some people.