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Old 01-11-2017, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted by trinton View Post
Perhaps he's frustrated with the situation and is under a great amount of stress. Why not give him some breathing room and time as opposed to harassing him for child support the second he loses his job? Show some empathy people. You have any idea how devastating it can be to a person to lose your job or your home? And on top of that having your ex stinging your feet? It's crazy what people do to each other for money. He doesn't have a job he can't give you his hard earned money any more. Go learn a thing or two about independence. Grow up. You child is not going to suffer by not having child support for a couple months.
That makes sense. When I'm "frustrated and under stress", I usually respond by not dealing with any of my responsibilities. I stop paying my mortgage or any other bills, stop going to work or making dinner for my kid because I'm UNDER STRESS and other people just have to accommodate me.

/sarcasm off

Most grown-up people would be trying to make arrangement for covering their CS responsibilities in this situation, like working out a payment plan. Mom isn't "harassing" Dad for CS, it's something he's obligated to pay.
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