Hi everyone,
So a few months have passed now since the new agreement was signed. Everything is very black and white in this new document, especially amounts ex must pay in monthly child support and daycare costs. For the year during which litigation was occurring (2017) he was on time with payments for the first time since separation. The new deal was inked in December 2017. He paid January’s child support at the newly updated (and reduced) rate and now has not paid a dime since.
Nothing for support and nothing for daycare.
I have been trying to contact FRO and assume that at some point this week they’ll get back to me. I wondered if anyone has experience with arrears and FRO - when will they allow you to apply to have wages garnisheed?
Is there a certain amount someone can wrack up in arrears before this is a possibility?
I budget according to his support and this is putting a real burden on me, and by default my family.
FRO doesn’t govern the daycare portion since that is a fluctuating amount every year. What would be my recourse there - take him to family court if it becomes months of this?
As an aside, my speculation is that he and his girlfriend are so high conflict that they actually require fighting and conflict to be occurring. I think it’s a game to make me beg for the money. My husband thinks I should not say anything as the angry emails are what we think he wants. But at the same time, this is completely wrong and affecting his children.
If he reached a certain point in arrears that I could just have it withdrawn and not worry about him controlling when I get it, I also think it may solve some problems.
Any advice on this matter would be greatly appreciated.
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So a few months have passed now since the new agreement was signed. Everything is very black and white in this new document, especially amounts ex must pay in monthly child support and daycare costs. For the year during which litigation was occurring (2017) he was on time with payments for the first time since separation. The new deal was inked in December 2017. He paid January’s child support at the newly updated (and reduced) rate and now has not paid a dime since.
Nothing for support and nothing for daycare.
I have been trying to contact FRO and assume that at some point this week they’ll get back to me. I wondered if anyone has experience with arrears and FRO - when will they allow you to apply to have wages garnisheed?
Is there a certain amount someone can wrack up in arrears before this is a possibility?
I budget according to his support and this is putting a real burden on me, and by default my family.
FRO doesn’t govern the daycare portion since that is a fluctuating amount every year. What would be my recourse there - take him to family court if it becomes months of this?
As an aside, my speculation is that he and his girlfriend are so high conflict that they actually require fighting and conflict to be occurring. I think it’s a game to make me beg for the money. My husband thinks I should not say anything as the angry emails are what we think he wants. But at the same time, this is completely wrong and affecting his children.
If he reached a certain point in arrears that I could just have it withdrawn and not worry about him controlling when I get it, I also think it may solve some problems.
Any advice on this matter would be greatly appreciated.
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