Ex withheld our kids at the beginning of covid. That was the beginning of a very long year between the kids and me. Through a lot of hard work with my counselor and theirs, we are just starting to become a family unit again.
I just received a text message from the boys that they do not want to come home today and for the next few weeks. I asked them what they meant and also sent their dad a message on OFW. They responded they just want to stay. All I said was that this discussion would be between their dad and me. He responded with the usual how terrible I am and that I should talk with the boys about it, this is nothing to be discussed between him and me. Our boys are 12 and he's been filling their heads with misinformation that they can choose where to live. They know what's in our MOS and quote various clauses to me.
Question -- he does the driving. Should I show up at his place at 6 this evening? It will be futile but will show I am not taking this lying down.
There's not much else I can do today. Will e contacting my lawyer tomorrow to start an emergency motion, but I think she's out of the country for a family emergency. Ugh! Any other suggestions would be welcome.
I just received a text message from the boys that they do not want to come home today and for the next few weeks. I asked them what they meant and also sent their dad a message on OFW. They responded they just want to stay. All I said was that this discussion would be between their dad and me. He responded with the usual how terrible I am and that I should talk with the boys about it, this is nothing to be discussed between him and me. Our boys are 12 and he's been filling their heads with misinformation that they can choose where to live. They know what's in our MOS and quote various clauses to me.
Question -- he does the driving. Should I show up at his place at 6 this evening? It will be futile but will show I am not taking this lying down.
There's not much else I can do today. Will e contacting my lawyer tomorrow to start an emergency motion, but I think she's out of the country for a family emergency. Ugh! Any other suggestions would be welcome.
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