Your post struck me more that youre a control freak wanting to make them love you. They have their reasons for not wanting to speak to you and you are failing to respect that. A medical professional is approaching it with some sensitivity to give them a safe place to speak about their feelings and work through their issues. They are attending counseling which is an excellent first step. Maybe give it some time and stop pressuring for what you want immediately. If you start trying to make people do what you want youre only going to be disappointed. Relax and let the therapist do their job.
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