During our marriage my husband was always emotionally abusive, and I had pretty much 0 self esteem. I had a great job earned far more than him, and I loved my work.
After I became ill and on disability the big paychecks stopped coming in so he left with a good friend of mine, and still lives with her.
One year later, he showed up in my apartment and jumped into my bed (one of my children let him in after telling them not to) expecting sex.
When one of my children became very ill (intensive care) we were both there. He kept groping me and putting his hands down my pants and making sexual remarks.
Shortly after, I was sleeping after one of my treatments (very ill) and he got into my apartment sent my son on an errand and raped me.
I took a bus to the Queens bench court the next day, (as I was too ill to drive) and tried to get a protection order.
The judge had absolutely no sympathy for what he did to me, and refused it as he was not there to defend himself.
Each time after when he called to threaten me or showed up at my apartment I called police. This did not stop him. He sent me emails depicting women that did not comply with thier husbands.
I am still in court trying to get spousal support and back support for raising our three children. The law allows men like this to get away with near murder.
After I became ill and on disability the big paychecks stopped coming in so he left with a good friend of mine, and still lives with her.
One year later, he showed up in my apartment and jumped into my bed (one of my children let him in after telling them not to) expecting sex.
When one of my children became very ill (intensive care) we were both there. He kept groping me and putting his hands down my pants and making sexual remarks.
Shortly after, I was sleeping after one of my treatments (very ill) and he got into my apartment sent my son on an errand and raped me.
I took a bus to the Queens bench court the next day, (as I was too ill to drive) and tried to get a protection order.
The judge had absolutely no sympathy for what he did to me, and refused it as he was not there to defend himself.
Each time after when he called to threaten me or showed up at my apartment I called police. This did not stop him. He sent me emails depicting women that did not comply with thier husbands.
I am still in court trying to get spousal support and back support for raising our three children. The law allows men like this to get away with near murder.
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