Seeking sharing experiences/wisdom regarding:
trial outcome re: custody/parenting when parental alienation court identified
Prior link:
http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f...toronto-16599/
Note: I have steadfastly pursued 50/50 shared parenting arrangement, until PA became substantial issue, then realizing damage associated and have not been "forcing myself on children" for parenting.
IMO: very long, damaging, and unnecessary (controlling) strategy employed by OP.
Key points (5 yrs. distilled):
- married 13 yrs., separated >5yrs., 2 children (now d14, s12)
- SA created (final, final version created, OP would not sign)
- 50/50 parenting existed post-separation (26 mths. with d, 16 mths. with s)
- co-operative co-parenting NOT followed by OP, PA court identified (custody and access evaluation, psychologist called CAS with complaint, and identified by judge) few years ago
- reunification counselling not pursued by OP (for children): since this professional called CAS with complaint against OP
- contempt finding against OP for withholding access to s
- OP could purge contempt finding if promoted access as ordered
- assault allegation against me by OP, allegation of assault of s. during parenting time
- allegation of breach of undertaking, 2nd charge = no communication with kids (20 months)
- vindication: found not guilty of 2 charges beyond reasonable doubt
- family court: reunification ordered (3rd time), trial ordered - motions not effective in dealing with our situation (multi-year)
trial outcome re: custody/parenting when parental alienation court identified
Prior link:
http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f...toronto-16599/
Note: I have steadfastly pursued 50/50 shared parenting arrangement, until PA became substantial issue, then realizing damage associated and have not been "forcing myself on children" for parenting.
IMO: very long, damaging, and unnecessary (controlling) strategy employed by OP.
Key points (5 yrs. distilled):
- married 13 yrs., separated >5yrs., 2 children (now d14, s12)
- SA created (final, final version created, OP would not sign)
- 50/50 parenting existed post-separation (26 mths. with d, 16 mths. with s)
- co-operative co-parenting NOT followed by OP, PA court identified (custody and access evaluation, psychologist called CAS with complaint, and identified by judge) few years ago
- reunification counselling not pursued by OP (for children): since this professional called CAS with complaint against OP
- contempt finding against OP for withholding access to s
- OP could purge contempt finding if promoted access as ordered
- assault allegation against me by OP, allegation of assault of s. during parenting time
- allegation of breach of undertaking, 2nd charge = no communication with kids (20 months)
- vindication: found not guilty of 2 charges beyond reasonable doubt
- family court: reunification ordered (3rd time), trial ordered - motions not effective in dealing with our situation (multi-year)
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