I currently have shared custody with a 50/50 split on access. No child support. We are each responsible for paying for our own care extra. In our order, the judge put a section that my ex and I are to try to agree on extra-curricular activities. If we cannot agree, we are to go to a parenting co-ordinator.
Since the judgement, I have enrolled my son in swimming and ball hockey this summer but his mom has been unwilling to share the cost. More over, she does not take our son when he is in her care.
This past weekend was my son's ball hockey finals. Although my ex knew well in advance that he had hockey (schedule was posted in June), she schedule him for an out of town visit with her father for the week, even though he wanted play hockey. What do I do?
During our settlement, my ex argued that Jordan's activities need to be scheduled only on week days so that she can go out of town. The Judge had said that she would need to make exceptions but didn't provide for that in the order.
I have told her I am upset and that I want to go to the parenting co-ordinator and she is refusing to go saying it's not necessary. How is this normally handled? Is this something that can be ruled on? Will the court order her to take him or allow me to pick him up for this type of thing?
Turns out that my son team played, 1 game Friday morning (which he was actually there for in jeans and without breakfast) and forfeited the second for a lack of players, then on Sunday they won 2 games, winning the finals and my son missed out.
Since the judgement, I have enrolled my son in swimming and ball hockey this summer but his mom has been unwilling to share the cost. More over, she does not take our son when he is in her care.
This past weekend was my son's ball hockey finals. Although my ex knew well in advance that he had hockey (schedule was posted in June), she schedule him for an out of town visit with her father for the week, even though he wanted play hockey. What do I do?
During our settlement, my ex argued that Jordan's activities need to be scheduled only on week days so that she can go out of town. The Judge had said that she would need to make exceptions but didn't provide for that in the order.
I have told her I am upset and that I want to go to the parenting co-ordinator and she is refusing to go saying it's not necessary. How is this normally handled? Is this something that can be ruled on? Will the court order her to take him or allow me to pick him up for this type of thing?
Turns out that my son team played, 1 game Friday morning (which he was actually there for in jeans and without breakfast) and forfeited the second for a lack of players, then on Sunday they won 2 games, winning the finals and my son missed out.
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