I will provide some background...my husband has two children from a previous marriage, he has always paid child support faithfully. 6 years ago lost her job and took him back to court to have his cs increased due to the fact that she would only be receiving EI. Since he was working the judge made him pay the full table amount (we have his children 47%). The children are now 19 (to be 20) not going to school but working and 17 (to be 18 in a few months). He will graduate, has never had a job and probably will not be going to college full time...how, he has no money.
My husband decided now because of their ages to exercise his right to cease cs for the older and address cs for the younger about to turn 18. We have, over the past 6 years written his ex letters asking her to address the amount of cs because she had started working again...she absolutely declined, but we did broach this about 4 times. A couple of months ago my husband found out that he can go through the FRO and they can send her a letter requesting this and we would not have to hire a lawyer, she delayed the response for 1 month (more money) and denied us. We got a lawyer and she sent her a letter saying we would take her to court... We figure she got the letter on a Friday..the kids were supposed to be with us that weekend...one came and the older stayed home with his mother who is not working again. The next time we would have them would be on the Wed. My husband lost his job on the Tuesday. They came over on the Wed, I got home first and they ganged up on me telling me they did not care that their father lost his job and that he should pay cs forever. They said their mother would lose her house and she didnt have a job. Their father came home shortly after and they started yelling at him. They said they hated me and they never wanted to live with us again. They did not care that he lost his job and we might lose our house, all they cared was about their mother (who dumps all her problems on them, crys all the time... you get the jist). Everything she could never give or provide, we did even though we were paying cs. My husband, who has done everything for them said fine...leave...that was last Wed.
Will this work against him from a legal point of view. HELP! it just gets worse
My husband decided now because of their ages to exercise his right to cease cs for the older and address cs for the younger about to turn 18. We have, over the past 6 years written his ex letters asking her to address the amount of cs because she had started working again...she absolutely declined, but we did broach this about 4 times. A couple of months ago my husband found out that he can go through the FRO and they can send her a letter requesting this and we would not have to hire a lawyer, she delayed the response for 1 month (more money) and denied us. We got a lawyer and she sent her a letter saying we would take her to court... We figure she got the letter on a Friday..the kids were supposed to be with us that weekend...one came and the older stayed home with his mother who is not working again. The next time we would have them would be on the Wed. My husband lost his job on the Tuesday. They came over on the Wed, I got home first and they ganged up on me telling me they did not care that their father lost his job and that he should pay cs forever. They said their mother would lose her house and she didnt have a job. Their father came home shortly after and they started yelling at him. They said they hated me and they never wanted to live with us again. They did not care that he lost his job and we might lose our house, all they cared was about their mother (who dumps all her problems on them, crys all the time... you get the jist). Everything she could never give or provide, we did even though we were paying cs. My husband, who has done everything for them said fine...leave...that was last Wed.
Will this work against him from a legal point of view. HELP! it just gets worse
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