Happy New Year!
Yes I should be out celebrating but I have a lot at stake in the second week of January.
I have read some posts about color coded charts and ways to organize evidence so a Judge reads it and I was wondering if someone could explain it to me?
I have about 200-300 emails. They consist of:
a) How I calculated cs based on our incomes and the table
b) My ex stating my value of her income is wrong (though not correcting the value)
c) Me asking for her income (no emails of her giving it to me)
d) Offers to mediate, and her replies stating she wants the issue in front of a judge
d) Her talk of her legal advice, speaking to her lawyer or speaking to FLIC
e) Offers I made to her by email
f) Emails explaining to her that I have to use her previous income because she won't give me her change in income
g) Emails of me telling her I need her income so I can pay the proper support
h) Other various emails that would lead me to believe that she is still making the amount she made while we were married
i) Various emails hinting to her lifestyle that would also lead me to believe that she was making a similar wage to what she made before separation.
j) Emails of hers stating that she is entitled to spousal and arrears but, not suggesting what her wage is or what I should be paying.
k) Motions where she listed ss and arrears but never dealt with them
Do I put this on a calendar? A pie graph? Timeline? Help would be appreciated. Especially those who have had to organize this many emails.
I have another post in the Financial forum that explains this, but to quickly explain; my ex, after 5 years of me paying a certain amount of cs, has made a motion for cs arrears, plus ss and ss arrears. She finally disclosed her past 5 yrs financials and made half, to up to a third her regular wages. I was WAY underpaying cs some years.
I'm trying to organize my evidence so the Judge can see that she refused to disclose her drop in wage nor file for ss but instead saved it up for a huge windfall. (Of course her lifestyle never changed which makes me wonder where she got the money to continue that lifestyle)
Thank you in advance
Yes I should be out celebrating but I have a lot at stake in the second week of January.
I have read some posts about color coded charts and ways to organize evidence so a Judge reads it and I was wondering if someone could explain it to me?
I have about 200-300 emails. They consist of:
a) How I calculated cs based on our incomes and the table
b) My ex stating my value of her income is wrong (though not correcting the value)
c) Me asking for her income (no emails of her giving it to me)
d) Offers to mediate, and her replies stating she wants the issue in front of a judge
d) Her talk of her legal advice, speaking to her lawyer or speaking to FLIC
e) Offers I made to her by email
f) Emails explaining to her that I have to use her previous income because she won't give me her change in income
g) Emails of me telling her I need her income so I can pay the proper support
h) Other various emails that would lead me to believe that she is still making the amount she made while we were married
i) Various emails hinting to her lifestyle that would also lead me to believe that she was making a similar wage to what she made before separation.
j) Emails of hers stating that she is entitled to spousal and arrears but, not suggesting what her wage is or what I should be paying.
k) Motions where she listed ss and arrears but never dealt with them
Do I put this on a calendar? A pie graph? Timeline? Help would be appreciated. Especially those who have had to organize this many emails.
I have another post in the Financial forum that explains this, but to quickly explain; my ex, after 5 years of me paying a certain amount of cs, has made a motion for cs arrears, plus ss and ss arrears. She finally disclosed her past 5 yrs financials and made half, to up to a third her regular wages. I was WAY underpaying cs some years.
I'm trying to organize my evidence so the Judge can see that she refused to disclose her drop in wage nor file for ss but instead saved it up for a huge windfall. (Of course her lifestyle never changed which makes me wonder where she got the money to continue that lifestyle)
Thank you in advance
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