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Old 05-05-2012, 09:16 PM
Berner_Faith Berner_Faith is offline
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Is the amount you may get from his pension for an extra year really that high? If this is your only bone of contention, count your lucky stars and let it go. If you are only looking at between $10,000-$30,000, going through the court, will eat up all those costs, not to mention the stress it is going to put you through. Why not suggest to meet in the middle?
Did he feel you lived separate, but under the same roof for a year? There are many couples going through divorce that still live under the same roof as their stbx.