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Old 10-15-2019, 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Wid View Post
I know it doesnt work that way but money and materials just look like meaningless stuff... however security and providing for my children cant come second place. It just feels like either I burn it on legal fees or use it as leverage for what really matters... our children. It all feels like a gamble and a waste.


It worked for me. I took a 40k hit to get the parenting arrangement I wanted. My ex felt like he won when it came to money. Cause he did. But custody was the only thing that mattered to me.

And I did use money as leverage because I knew my ex wanted it. He got it. But if I had just said oh well, its just money- i wouldnt have had any bargaining chip. Dont let her know you dont care about the money if she does.
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