Hammerdad - Thanks for the tip on how to phrase the wording of the parenting plan. You're right, that could definitely bite me in the ass in the future if phrased wrong.
PursuingHappiness - Good advice, I have recorded pretty much all our conversations outside of phone calls. You're right, that does make a lot of sense as I don't need to attack her unless I am defending myself against her accusations. My lawyer said we should just present to the judge that you are a responsible, caring parent that wants to be actively part of your son's right. It is her fight to say I am unfit if she wants to have 100% physical custody of him. He said yes, give me all the texts on her but he said we shouldn't need to use it but we will if we have to. It doesn't need to get complicated and messy.
Dinkyface - You are absolutely 100% correct that I thought she had more rights to him than me. To be brutally honest, if it wasn't for you and everyone else on the this forum, (in addition to my lawyer) I am slowly moving out of her "reality distortion field" that our son is hers to do as she pleases.
Thank you everybody!
PursuingHappiness - Good advice, I have recorded pretty much all our conversations outside of phone calls. You're right, that does make a lot of sense as I don't need to attack her unless I am defending myself against her accusations. My lawyer said we should just present to the judge that you are a responsible, caring parent that wants to be actively part of your son's right. It is her fight to say I am unfit if she wants to have 100% physical custody of him. He said yes, give me all the texts on her but he said we shouldn't need to use it but we will if we have to. It doesn't need to get complicated and messy.
Dinkyface - You are absolutely 100% correct that I thought she had more rights to him than me. To be brutally honest, if it wasn't for you and everyone else on the this forum, (in addition to my lawyer) I am slowly moving out of her "reality distortion field" that our son is hers to do as she pleases.
Thank you everybody!
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