I have been reading posts for a while and just need some advice.... ex preplanned divorce, pretty sure he hid money. Asked for court ordered financials but things seem off. Ill be investigsting more later but how can i get more details?
My family and i have raised thr baby fron birth. He has been abusive, neglectful, etc. He had supervised visits in the house but my lawyer changed it to unsupervised, i argued and he didnt listen. I have changed lawyers since due to alot of problems (telling me to sign court docs without reading and not knowing what i was signing... yes my fault i know. And hurtful comments). Anyways ex had a few hours with baby but after a motion he got overnights every weekend 1 day. Now the following questions:
How do i get some weekends back? I want time with the baby. I cant go to any events, etc with every weekend he has baby
If i have to pay costs for a motion but have no job how is that going to work? I have 0 income beside cs
I asked for mediation before but ex rejected it. Now they want mediation bc i mentioned costs are gettng high. Should i or is it pointless? Very hostile divorce fyi
There is no co parenting. child in under 2 years. He does what he wants i let him know of appoinments, etc. If i offer anything he sends his attack dogs in. Hiw can there be joint custody of we dont talk or can comminicate. Ive tried and he just hides behind the lawyers. He knows nothing of the baby
How do i get sole custody?
Also i know some wont like this but how can you tell if the ex is only seeing the child to hurt the other parent or genuinly cares?
My family and i have raised thr baby fron birth. He has been abusive, neglectful, etc. He had supervised visits in the house but my lawyer changed it to unsupervised, i argued and he didnt listen. I have changed lawyers since due to alot of problems (telling me to sign court docs without reading and not knowing what i was signing... yes my fault i know. And hurtful comments). Anyways ex had a few hours with baby but after a motion he got overnights every weekend 1 day. Now the following questions:
How do i get some weekends back? I want time with the baby. I cant go to any events, etc with every weekend he has baby
If i have to pay costs for a motion but have no job how is that going to work? I have 0 income beside cs
I asked for mediation before but ex rejected it. Now they want mediation bc i mentioned costs are gettng high. Should i or is it pointless? Very hostile divorce fyi
There is no co parenting. child in under 2 years. He does what he wants i let him know of appoinments, etc. If i offer anything he sends his attack dogs in. Hiw can there be joint custody of we dont talk or can comminicate. Ive tried and he just hides behind the lawyers. He knows nothing of the baby
How do i get sole custody?
Also i know some wont like this but how can you tell if the ex is only seeing the child to hurt the other parent or genuinly cares?
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