Just to be clear what exactly is an endorsement and how much weight does it hold? I am assuming its the Judge putting in the court documents that he supports my moving with the child so that when it goes to a motion trial the other justice will see the endorsement and possibly rule in my favour because of it?
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Originally posted by viper56power View PostJust to be clear what exactly is an endorsement and how much weight does it hold? I am assuming its the Judge putting in the court documents that he supports my moving with the child so that when it goes to a motion trial the other justice will see the endorsement and possibly rule in my favour because of it?
Your questions of precedent has several implications that come from the context of all the actions, however simply put don't expect an endorsement of a single temporary agreement to influence the outcome of a final order made at trial. The trial will hear all aspects of the case to make a final order and may or may not consider previous orders.
The purpose of a case conference is to seek clarity in the case and the court prefers to drive settlement; this is why less than 5% of family law cases go to trial. The conference is not a forum for arguing motions for a win.
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A justice should voice their opinion of the likely outcome, this is a large part of the reason for the conference system. That said, sometimes it doesn't happen.
The idea is this, the courts want to minimize the number of cases that go to trial both for your (the litigants) benefit and for the taxpayer's benefit. The justice will suggest what a likely outcome is and will suggest a compromise position for both parties so that hopefully a settlement can be reached.
Please understand that "compromise" doesn't mean that the party with the strongest case will get what they want. A justice will probably suggest a middle position, for example a little less support paid or a little more time with the NCP etc in order to encourage a settlement between the two parties.
That won't always happen and it depends on the attitude of the litigants and how black and white the case is.
In your case the justice will very likely suggest either to you or to your ex that you don't have a strong case and you should consider settling out of court otherwise you will get hosed for costs. In your case it's hard to compromise on a move, you either move or you don't. I have no idea if you can present a strong case or not.
I will suggest to you that making the purchase and arranging the move before settling the issue of whether you can do it or not weakens your position. Please address this carefully. If you and your ex are at odds over this and you went ahead and bought a place and have a date for the move, then you are the antagonistic party. It doesn't appear to the courts that you are co-operating or willing to work with your ex on the surface.
You need to lay out your case to show every single effort you have made to work this out without going to court. You need to detail the ex's lack of involvement. Detail each attempt you made to communicate. Detail each time the ex refused to discuss it or answer a letter or email. Be honest and forthright that you went ahead and bought a house and made plans to move because the ex had shown complete indifference to you, and you felt this indicated they weren't concerned.
You must show this with every possible detail. Don't assume that a judge will just "get it". That is not their job. Their job is to look at the evidence that actually present, not to figure out what is obvious to you.
The hardest part is for you to look at your situation and think certain things may be a "no brainer" and obvious and not see what it is that you have to explain carefully step-by-step. You must show step-by-step that what you decided is reasonable. No one will figure that out on their own, that is not how the court system works.
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Originally posted by viper56power View PostThanks a lot guys. Your going out of your way to help people and it is greatly appreciated by me and I am sure many other people. One quick question tho is how much detail goes into a case conference brief or do i use affidavits to really pour on the evidence to my case.
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