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Old 05-15-2010, 03:50 PM
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If the separation agreement was just made up b/w the two of you and not witnessed it will carry little, if any, weight.

IMO you should be able to stop paying SS, but I wouldn't try to reduce the CS at the same time, especially as a result of a change of your doing.

You won't look reasonable by decreasing the CS at the same time.

I would give her notice that you will be terminating the SS and give her one or a few more payments then end it.