Hello, I have been visiting this forum as guest since a year ago and now decided to join in and hopefully get some insight.
I have been in common law relationship since late 2005 and my child was born early 2006.
Lately, he has this… Well I start to see it as pattern now that I can say habit. For every couple months or so, I get beaten once. The very recent one was yesterday when he stomped on me and beat me. A couple months ago, he shoved me to the floor that made me hit picture frames till they broke and started beating me.
I kind of had enough since this beating has become worse and worse I live in fear. We actually got council several years ago. I think it was when my baby was a couple months old. The beatings stop until late last year.
I kind of wonder if he is suffering from mental illness. I read somewhere on the internet that men who abuse their partner usually pick to hit body part where it is not visible to others but mine, he pretty much hit me on my body, legs and arms, hands. The bruises are visible to others.
What I really want to know,
What happened if I called the police?
And if I decide to separate from him, are we going to have 50-50 custody or can I have major custody over my kid. I don’t mind my kid with him or his family as long someone neutral near by to watch her. You see, his mother is nasty and basically she is the only topic that leads mouth argument to beating. He and his family speak another language I do not understand. 2 years ago, I found out his mother has been teaching my child to call me whore in their language. I just cannot have that. What other things has she been teaching my child to disrespect me?
More details to help the case, we bought a condo together. Currently, he is in college full time and I work full time.
After all these beatings and daily verbal insults, why am I still with him? Because I worry about my kid. I am afraid of what is going to happen if we separate. Again, this is what I want, custody of my child. I don’t mind my kid sees the father and family as long there is someone neutral there. And where would I live then? He’s parents have a house and they are joyful to have him back. My parents live in a condo and there is no room for me there. I am in my early twenties and he is in middle twenties if age matters.
I have been in common law relationship since late 2005 and my child was born early 2006.
Lately, he has this… Well I start to see it as pattern now that I can say habit. For every couple months or so, I get beaten once. The very recent one was yesterday when he stomped on me and beat me. A couple months ago, he shoved me to the floor that made me hit picture frames till they broke and started beating me.
I kind of had enough since this beating has become worse and worse I live in fear. We actually got council several years ago. I think it was when my baby was a couple months old. The beatings stop until late last year.
I kind of wonder if he is suffering from mental illness. I read somewhere on the internet that men who abuse their partner usually pick to hit body part where it is not visible to others but mine, he pretty much hit me on my body, legs and arms, hands. The bruises are visible to others.
What I really want to know,
What happened if I called the police?
And if I decide to separate from him, are we going to have 50-50 custody or can I have major custody over my kid. I don’t mind my kid with him or his family as long someone neutral near by to watch her. You see, his mother is nasty and basically she is the only topic that leads mouth argument to beating. He and his family speak another language I do not understand. 2 years ago, I found out his mother has been teaching my child to call me whore in their language. I just cannot have that. What other things has she been teaching my child to disrespect me?
More details to help the case, we bought a condo together. Currently, he is in college full time and I work full time.
After all these beatings and daily verbal insults, why am I still with him? Because I worry about my kid. I am afraid of what is going to happen if we separate. Again, this is what I want, custody of my child. I don’t mind my kid sees the father and family as long there is someone neutral there. And where would I live then? He’s parents have a house and they are joyful to have him back. My parents live in a condo and there is no room for me there. I am in my early twenties and he is in middle twenties if age matters.
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