Anyone who has been through dealing with difficult people training has learned that the only way to deal with this type of situation is to be assertive and set boundaries. While it is easy to say “save yourself the stress and say yes”, all this does is empower the unreasonable person to continue to seek ways of disrespecting boundaries.
He should not be setting conditions and by pushing back she is setting a healthy boundary. By saying no she solves nothing. Saying this is an unreasonable request and pointing out the unfairness of setting conditions demonstrates to her ex that he cannot set his own conditions on things.
He should not be setting conditions and by pushing back she is setting a healthy boundary. By saying no she solves nothing. Saying this is an unreasonable request and pointing out the unfairness of setting conditions demonstrates to her ex that he cannot set his own conditions on things.
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