Question about parenting time
Ehhhh....you don’t necessarily know what she means by safety fears. We don’t know her dv history.
This behaviour the OP is describing by her ex is exactly the bullshit boundary pushing behaviour abusive partners thrive on. They push a bit here- well, it’s not totally unreasonable right? Drive the kids and walk them to the door. Okay- then next time. It’s come in the house and wait while I gather the kids stuff. Then it might be a snide comment- or standing too close to her. If there is any hope to “co-parenting” with an abusive or high conflict ex, it’s setting firm boundaries and not budging.
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Ehhhh....you don’t necessarily know what she means by safety fears. We don’t know her dv history.
This behaviour the OP is describing by her ex is exactly the bullshit boundary pushing behaviour abusive partners thrive on. They push a bit here- well, it’s not totally unreasonable right? Drive the kids and walk them to the door. Okay- then next time. It’s come in the house and wait while I gather the kids stuff. Then it might be a snide comment- or standing too close to her. If there is any hope to “co-parenting” with an abusive or high conflict ex, it’s setting firm boundaries and not budging.
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