This is more of a vent post than anything hence the general chat thread.
My partner got the long awaited documentation he requested six months ago. It was supplemented by an offer to settle. His ex was so kind to send him this with a deadline of...Christmas.
Her offer is complete bullshit. She wants cs until kids are 25 regardless of whether they are in school. Full cs regardless of whether they are away at school. Monthly s7 expenses in the $600-700 range for the next eight years to cover school, medical expenses and any other activities the kids want to be in. She also wants retro cs for kid that was away at school to cover all her expenses she incurred for kid without receipts.
You can imagine my partners reaction which was further impacted by her list of documentation she is requesting including information about my finances and what I pay for etc.
Then he discovered that even though his kid was working, no income was reported to CRA. Needless to say all of my comments about how his kids are liars like their mother hit him. Hes so upset right now. Panicked that a judge will accept this crap and upset that I have been dragged into it. Also that its going to take thousands to fight this ridiculousness. My heart breaks for him right now and he keeps pushing me away. Always at the holidays. And this year we agreed to celebrate at home.
My partner got the long awaited documentation he requested six months ago. It was supplemented by an offer to settle. His ex was so kind to send him this with a deadline of...Christmas.
Her offer is complete bullshit. She wants cs until kids are 25 regardless of whether they are in school. Full cs regardless of whether they are away at school. Monthly s7 expenses in the $600-700 range for the next eight years to cover school, medical expenses and any other activities the kids want to be in. She also wants retro cs for kid that was away at school to cover all her expenses she incurred for kid without receipts.
You can imagine my partners reaction which was further impacted by her list of documentation she is requesting including information about my finances and what I pay for etc.
Then he discovered that even though his kid was working, no income was reported to CRA. Needless to say all of my comments about how his kids are liars like their mother hit him. Hes so upset right now. Panicked that a judge will accept this crap and upset that I have been dragged into it. Also that its going to take thousands to fight this ridiculousness. My heart breaks for him right now and he keeps pushing me away. Always at the holidays. And this year we agreed to celebrate at home.
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