Hi folks,
After over 3 years of battle to get some access with my kids, I finally got an order to start with EOW access with D10 last September. Everything was going find until last week when S18 decided he no longer wanted to come for access.
D10 was requesting more time so I told her to wait until Spring so I could raise the matter to her mom. So a Month ago, I send a nice Email to mom to seek more access with D10 upon her wishes.
I then had a chat with my S17, who is now S18 about his schooling. I am responsible for post-education. I wasn't too happy to learn that nothing was done as to research of a job prior to finishing his high school. The program he is enrolled to requires that he finds a job with a contractor willing to account for a number of hours in order to pursue his studies. I asked him to provide me with a detail plan, showing his researches, his next steps, all stuff related to school with dates and details on the programs.
He didn't like that and decided to cut his access with me. The reason he gave had no sense at all saying I was to aggressive and violent when I approach him with the subject. At 18 years old, I figure out that he expected he could just lay down at her mother's house and do nothing. I don't care what he thinks. Married or separated... I am still the same dad who will still encourage that my children have good education and far from being allergic to work.
He ran away with his little sister. I text my ex back to bring D10 to my house as it was my access time but she ignored my message.
Then I got that silly email from her lawyer saying that D10 do not want any access with me anymore. That they spoke to a counsellor who had to address the matter to CAS because they were concern about her access with dad. bla bla bla Nothing in the Court Order state that there is to be a recommendation for access. The therapy was for reunification but was terminated from the beginning as their was no need for it.
I reply that there is an Order in place and I will keep on showing on time to pick her up. If after 20 minutes and my courtesy messages, she keeps on ignoring me, I will document for contempt.
I knew that even with a Court Order, she would still do what she wants.
How long or how many times should I count until I bring a motion for contempt?
After over 3 years of battle to get some access with my kids, I finally got an order to start with EOW access with D10 last September. Everything was going find until last week when S18 decided he no longer wanted to come for access.
D10 was requesting more time so I told her to wait until Spring so I could raise the matter to her mom. So a Month ago, I send a nice Email to mom to seek more access with D10 upon her wishes.
I then had a chat with my S17, who is now S18 about his schooling. I am responsible for post-education. I wasn't too happy to learn that nothing was done as to research of a job prior to finishing his high school. The program he is enrolled to requires that he finds a job with a contractor willing to account for a number of hours in order to pursue his studies. I asked him to provide me with a detail plan, showing his researches, his next steps, all stuff related to school with dates and details on the programs.
He didn't like that and decided to cut his access with me. The reason he gave had no sense at all saying I was to aggressive and violent when I approach him with the subject. At 18 years old, I figure out that he expected he could just lay down at her mother's house and do nothing. I don't care what he thinks. Married or separated... I am still the same dad who will still encourage that my children have good education and far from being allergic to work.
He ran away with his little sister. I text my ex back to bring D10 to my house as it was my access time but she ignored my message.
Then I got that silly email from her lawyer saying that D10 do not want any access with me anymore. That they spoke to a counsellor who had to address the matter to CAS because they were concern about her access with dad. bla bla bla Nothing in the Court Order state that there is to be a recommendation for access. The therapy was for reunification but was terminated from the beginning as their was no need for it.
I reply that there is an Order in place and I will keep on showing on time to pick her up. If after 20 minutes and my courtesy messages, she keeps on ignoring me, I will document for contempt.
I knew that even with a Court Order, she would still do what she wants.
How long or how many times should I count until I bring a motion for contempt?
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