Hi I am going through hell with my ex wife, we separated 22 months ago, but we are still living in the same house. She lives in the main house upstairs and I live in the basement apartment. We bought the home with money lent to us by my parents and then we had renovated the house using money lent by my parents. My parents did do legitimate, registered morgages for the full amounts. After or separation my ex wife doesn't want to sell the home and doesn't want to pay my parents back their money ou tof the sale of the home. She is delaying it by saying that it was a gift but it wasn't and I want to sell the home, give my parents thier money and my ex and I split the rest 50/50. which works out to be apprx. $200,000.00 each. But my ex wife wants to get more and give my parents less back. She has been playing games for 2 years wasting time with meeting between lawyers etc. saying that she wants to sell the house, but then the lawyers draw up papers and she doesn't want to settle anymore instead wants to take me to court for more money because she thinks my parents have money. Living it the basement with her upstairs is intolerable, I can't trust her she has called the police with lies trying to get me arrested and she continues to try and provoke me so she can call the police.
My question is this if she refuses to sell and wants to fight and I want to sell but she doesn't, and I really would love to move out of the home, will I loose the home or any rights to it?? And once I move out can she live there as long as she wants without wanting to come to a selling agreement??? The house is to large and expensive for her she could never afford it. Right now she pays the hydro, water and gas, which is about 4 or 5 thousand a year and I pay the property taxes of $10000.00 per year. If I move out would she have to pay for it all and I just pay child support???
I am really scared that if I move out then she will never leave the house, my 12 yr old son even wants to sell the house. I am so messed up from all the stress, hell and games she is playing with me, I hate my life, I really feel like killing myself, and my ex even dragged my poor widow mother into this fight with the house. My mother has to do a civil suit against both of us to get her money out but my ex still refuses to sell.
What are my rights when it comes to moving out but still have a say with the house, someone told me if I move out she has full control. Is it true??
My question is this if she refuses to sell and wants to fight and I want to sell but she doesn't, and I really would love to move out of the home, will I loose the home or any rights to it?? And once I move out can she live there as long as she wants without wanting to come to a selling agreement??? The house is to large and expensive for her she could never afford it. Right now she pays the hydro, water and gas, which is about 4 or 5 thousand a year and I pay the property taxes of $10000.00 per year. If I move out would she have to pay for it all and I just pay child support???
I am really scared that if I move out then she will never leave the house, my 12 yr old son even wants to sell the house. I am so messed up from all the stress, hell and games she is playing with me, I hate my life, I really feel like killing myself, and my ex even dragged my poor widow mother into this fight with the house. My mother has to do a civil suit against both of us to get her money out but my ex still refuses to sell.
What are my rights when it comes to moving out but still have a say with the house, someone told me if I move out she has full control. Is it true??
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