Hello all, here you go again, I am here writing once again.
The father showed up to see the child after 1 months and half. 3 previous visitations missed.
Was late with notice.
5 hrs if Supervised visitation was given. I would supervise from the safe distance so the child would not see me
The father last minute said, I take the child 2 hrs maximum. If you don't agree I cancel it.
I had to agree. If I would say no, he would use it against me. However, in court, he asks for 3 hrs of visitation minium.
Now to the point and what happened during the visitation during the extreme heat warning.
The child is 2 years and 5 months.
This is what happened today:
He arrived at 12 PM
Brought to box of snacks with no water, diapers, sun cream and car seat.
I told him that it is a lunch time and that he would be needing to feed the child. He said, no. I won't be feeding her. I am taking her to the playground instead.
I told him, snack is not lunch and you were informed about it. He was visibly angry and not happy about me telling him it was the time to feed the child.
12.05 He went to the park.
Weather advisory was issued with over 30 degree Celsius. Children were advise to be kept indoor
12.10 PM: Father arrived at playground with child. The child walked most of the time.
12.12: The child began her activity, playing in the swing.
12.14 PM: the child began to complain: "It's, hot. Hot." She did not wanted to go back to the swing. Father continued putting her back to the swing. The child continued to resist. Father showed no interest in following the child's demand.
12.15 PM - The child began to slide in playground. Again, complained it was hot. Father showed no desire to stop.
12.16 The backpack with water remained on the bench and untouched
12.46 PM - the child began demanding for water. I could hear her saying, "I want water," as Father never offered her one since 12 PM despite the extreme hot weather. Father opened the backpack and began to eat snacks. The child did not eat anything. Father even drank her water.
12:51: Father turned on his phone and began using it, while the child was sitting on the grass.
12.54 Father began telling the child: Let's go find your mother and go home." He had another hour of visitation
12.55 PM I have remained discreet to ensure there is no interference on my end and the child won't notice me.
12.55 PM Father knew where I was yet continued showing the child where I was.
12.57 Father disappeared from my sight and was unable to find him
1.05 PM: I found Father and the child at Goldfinch and Finch ave. He bag walking with child towards Bathurst and Finch. The child walked under the sun, with no hat, sun cream applied and visibly with legs shaking, as she was already tired
1.07 PM: by the hospital hospital, the child sat on the ground and refused to walk no more. She began to cry and was clingy. Father continued pushing the child to walk under the extreme hot weather with no water given the child since 12.45 PM
1.09 PM: Father finally picked the child up and resumed his walk towards the Bathurst and Finch. The child had to insist for him to lift her up as she could not walk no more.
1.11 PM: Father put the child on the ground, not holding her hands and allowed to run without proper supervision. It seemed the child was faster and Father was noticeably tired
1.14 PM: Father and the child approached the Bathurst and Finch. The child began asking to go to Tim Hortons. She said, Yummy Tummy. I want food."
1.14 PM: Father picked her up forcebly and said no. We go that way. He began to cross the street towards the Bathurst Hub.
1.15 PM: The child demanded for Father to release her and she dropped on the ground right in the middle of intersection asking to go back for Yummy Tummy. Fatther once again, refused. Picked her up and crossed the street. The child did not refuse this time.
1.17 PM, Father layed down on the grass in the shadow, under the trees, while the child was walking around under the sun, with no hat or protection from heat, while the father was resting.
1.40 PM, no snacks was offered to the child. Not at least from 12.45 PM
1.41 PM: Father got up, took the child and began walking towards home, the child's residence.
1.42 PM: Child's legs shaking and she cannot walk. She stops and tells something to Father, showing her hands up, hoping he will pick her up. He did not. She continued walking, looking exhausted.
1.44 PM: Child was able to convince Jeyhun to pick her up, and a minute when she was in his arm, she fell asleep.
1.46 PM: Father woke her up, put her down and asked to walk. The child was super tired and did not want to. FATHER resiated to be his way. The child did not say anything.
1.47 PM, by the Centennial library, the child sat down on the ground and was no longer able to walk. It was too hot and she was too tired. Father approached her and tried to see if she can walk. She did not want to and began to cry. Then father picked her up and walked towards the ***** intersection.
1.48 PM: Child was sleepy and too tired. Father put her down and continued having her engaged in high-enervy activities with no water offered.
1.52 PM: The child walked towards home and began to drag her father, to the back of the building, where is the Convenience store. The child said: I want Ice Cream." The father shouted at her very loud and said, "No Ice Cream. Ask your Mother to buy you." Child was scared but continued dragging him towards the store. He grabbed her, lifted her up and took her the building.
1.56 PM: father texted: We are downstairs.
1.57 When I approached the building, in the main entrance,. The child was all wet, sweat and tired. She was banging the door, Mommy, where is Mommy. I want my Mommy."
I told her,baby, I am right behind you. The child was disoriented and did not hear me and continued banlging the door. When she finally noticed me, she showed the usual happiness, but a bit weird. She said, Mommy please open the door. When I opened the door, she said, thank you Mommy. We are home. She hugged me and leaned against me held me, as if she has not seen me for ages. "Mummy, can you buy me an ice cream?" I said, of course, I will buy it in a minute."
1.58 PM: I asked the father, have you fed the child, changed diaper? He, with the smile on his face, as if he was delivering a good news: No, I did not." He was most definitely looked satisfied and rested while the child was pushed to the limits.
2.05 PM: The child had pooed looked like from an hour ago. Her bottom was in red rushes, dirty. She had to take a bath. But she also drank too much water and asked for food.
2.30 PM: she fell asleep for 2 hours.
7:30 PM: we went to the park. When the child saw the swing and the playground slide, she said, no mommy. I am scared. It is too hot. I looked at her and said: "Do not worry. I won't put you on anything that is hot and I promise it is not." She was hesitant but trusted me, perhaps, remembering how her father was putting her on too hot surface with no regard for her safety.
I have some videos but no sound.
How can I prove all these are true in court. He will obviously say it is not true. I have photos as well. He literally tortured the child yesterday and I couldn't interfere because he would accuse me of dictating him what he should do with child.
I promise you, he was just killing his time and showed no regards to the child's need. It is what he does in front of me. God knows what he will do when he is alone with child.
The child's diaper today is still dry. Drinks lots of water.
I don't know how else to protect the child while she is with him.
I don't know what to do.
My court hearing is on July 11th, 2022.
The father showed up to see the child after 1 months and half. 3 previous visitations missed.
Was late with notice.
5 hrs if Supervised visitation was given. I would supervise from the safe distance so the child would not see me
The father last minute said, I take the child 2 hrs maximum. If you don't agree I cancel it.
I had to agree. If I would say no, he would use it against me. However, in court, he asks for 3 hrs of visitation minium.
Now to the point and what happened during the visitation during the extreme heat warning.
The child is 2 years and 5 months.
This is what happened today:
He arrived at 12 PM
Brought to box of snacks with no water, diapers, sun cream and car seat.
I told him that it is a lunch time and that he would be needing to feed the child. He said, no. I won't be feeding her. I am taking her to the playground instead.
I told him, snack is not lunch and you were informed about it. He was visibly angry and not happy about me telling him it was the time to feed the child.
12.05 He went to the park.
Weather advisory was issued with over 30 degree Celsius. Children were advise to be kept indoor
12.10 PM: Father arrived at playground with child. The child walked most of the time.
12.12: The child began her activity, playing in the swing.
12.14 PM: the child began to complain: "It's, hot. Hot." She did not wanted to go back to the swing. Father continued putting her back to the swing. The child continued to resist. Father showed no interest in following the child's demand.
12.15 PM - The child began to slide in playground. Again, complained it was hot. Father showed no desire to stop.
12.16 The backpack with water remained on the bench and untouched
12.46 PM - the child began demanding for water. I could hear her saying, "I want water," as Father never offered her one since 12 PM despite the extreme hot weather. Father opened the backpack and began to eat snacks. The child did not eat anything. Father even drank her water.
12:51: Father turned on his phone and began using it, while the child was sitting on the grass.
12.54 Father began telling the child: Let's go find your mother and go home." He had another hour of visitation
12.55 PM I have remained discreet to ensure there is no interference on my end and the child won't notice me.
12.55 PM Father knew where I was yet continued showing the child where I was.
12.57 Father disappeared from my sight and was unable to find him
1.05 PM: I found Father and the child at Goldfinch and Finch ave. He bag walking with child towards Bathurst and Finch. The child walked under the sun, with no hat, sun cream applied and visibly with legs shaking, as she was already tired
1.07 PM: by the hospital hospital, the child sat on the ground and refused to walk no more. She began to cry and was clingy. Father continued pushing the child to walk under the extreme hot weather with no water given the child since 12.45 PM
1.09 PM: Father finally picked the child up and resumed his walk towards the Bathurst and Finch. The child had to insist for him to lift her up as she could not walk no more.
1.11 PM: Father put the child on the ground, not holding her hands and allowed to run without proper supervision. It seemed the child was faster and Father was noticeably tired
1.14 PM: Father and the child approached the Bathurst and Finch. The child began asking to go to Tim Hortons. She said, Yummy Tummy. I want food."
1.14 PM: Father picked her up forcebly and said no. We go that way. He began to cross the street towards the Bathurst Hub.
1.15 PM: The child demanded for Father to release her and she dropped on the ground right in the middle of intersection asking to go back for Yummy Tummy. Fatther once again, refused. Picked her up and crossed the street. The child did not refuse this time.
1.17 PM, Father layed down on the grass in the shadow, under the trees, while the child was walking around under the sun, with no hat or protection from heat, while the father was resting.
1.40 PM, no snacks was offered to the child. Not at least from 12.45 PM
1.41 PM: Father got up, took the child and began walking towards home, the child's residence.
1.42 PM: Child's legs shaking and she cannot walk. She stops and tells something to Father, showing her hands up, hoping he will pick her up. He did not. She continued walking, looking exhausted.
1.44 PM: Child was able to convince Jeyhun to pick her up, and a minute when she was in his arm, she fell asleep.
1.46 PM: Father woke her up, put her down and asked to walk. The child was super tired and did not want to. FATHER resiated to be his way. The child did not say anything.
1.47 PM, by the Centennial library, the child sat down on the ground and was no longer able to walk. It was too hot and she was too tired. Father approached her and tried to see if she can walk. She did not want to and began to cry. Then father picked her up and walked towards the ***** intersection.
1.48 PM: Child was sleepy and too tired. Father put her down and continued having her engaged in high-enervy activities with no water offered.
1.52 PM: The child walked towards home and began to drag her father, to the back of the building, where is the Convenience store. The child said: I want Ice Cream." The father shouted at her very loud and said, "No Ice Cream. Ask your Mother to buy you." Child was scared but continued dragging him towards the store. He grabbed her, lifted her up and took her the building.
1.56 PM: father texted: We are downstairs.
1.57 When I approached the building, in the main entrance,. The child was all wet, sweat and tired. She was banging the door, Mommy, where is Mommy. I want my Mommy."
I told her,baby, I am right behind you. The child was disoriented and did not hear me and continued banlging the door. When she finally noticed me, she showed the usual happiness, but a bit weird. She said, Mommy please open the door. When I opened the door, she said, thank you Mommy. We are home. She hugged me and leaned against me held me, as if she has not seen me for ages. "Mummy, can you buy me an ice cream?" I said, of course, I will buy it in a minute."
1.58 PM: I asked the father, have you fed the child, changed diaper? He, with the smile on his face, as if he was delivering a good news: No, I did not." He was most definitely looked satisfied and rested while the child was pushed to the limits.
2.05 PM: The child had pooed looked like from an hour ago. Her bottom was in red rushes, dirty. She had to take a bath. But she also drank too much water and asked for food.
2.30 PM: she fell asleep for 2 hours.
7:30 PM: we went to the park. When the child saw the swing and the playground slide, she said, no mommy. I am scared. It is too hot. I looked at her and said: "Do not worry. I won't put you on anything that is hot and I promise it is not." She was hesitant but trusted me, perhaps, remembering how her father was putting her on too hot surface with no regard for her safety.
I have some videos but no sound.
How can I prove all these are true in court. He will obviously say it is not true. I have photos as well. He literally tortured the child yesterday and I couldn't interfere because he would accuse me of dictating him what he should do with child.
I promise you, he was just killing his time and showed no regards to the child's need. It is what he does in front of me. God knows what he will do when he is alone with child.
The child's diaper today is still dry. Drinks lots of water.
I don't know how else to protect the child while she is with him.
I don't know what to do.
My court hearing is on July 11th, 2022.
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