Hi Guys,
Thanks in advance for all your help and opinions. I'm new to this site, like others kind of wondering what should I expect when my wife and I divorce.
My wife and I are married for about a year and have a year old child. From the beginning she didn't bring anything to the table and I was the one bringing the bacon home. I bought the house and pay for the monthly mortgages and utilities. Her name is not even in the mortgage and in the deed due to her bad credit history. She doesn't have a job because after delivering the baby she quit her job and didn't go back to work while I was on 8 month parental leave. She went back to school and graduating soon, with of course with my help as well.
The issue is that we could never get a long and always have fight with every things even for small little things. Every time we argue, I felt abuse emotionally and verbally(she would really say awful things about me) and most of all she hit me at times and pinch me and I end up getting cuts and wounds sometimes. It scares me that I might fight back and ended up hurting her physically. At most times, I just try my best to shut my mouth while keeps on saying things that really hurt me i.e. that my earnings from my work is only enough to put shelter and food for my family.
Now she wants to divorce and also threatens me that she will take everything, our house, most of my salary for child and spousal support, also she threatens me that I will never see my child again. I felt kind of scared since I'm only making 65K a year and if she's about to take 50% or more and also my pension that I've worked on for past 4 years, I'm definitely screwed. I don't really see having a good life at all after we divorce.
Anyhow, my question is that, with this in mind, what kind of things should I really expect once we get to divorce because I doubt that she will just sit there and agree with me to apply for divorce application without seeing the judge and have agreement just between me and her. As for my end, I know for myself I tried my best to be the best dad and husband as I can be. As of now, I'm not happy at all with this marriage. I felt that my wife is unsupported especially about my job and that she tells me to quit indirectly while she still in school and no job as well. But as well all know, woman doesn't see/value what they have until they lose it. Unfortunately, I married a princess..... Any points or opinion is greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Thanks in advance for all your help and opinions. I'm new to this site, like others kind of wondering what should I expect when my wife and I divorce.
My wife and I are married for about a year and have a year old child. From the beginning she didn't bring anything to the table and I was the one bringing the bacon home. I bought the house and pay for the monthly mortgages and utilities. Her name is not even in the mortgage and in the deed due to her bad credit history. She doesn't have a job because after delivering the baby she quit her job and didn't go back to work while I was on 8 month parental leave. She went back to school and graduating soon, with of course with my help as well.
The issue is that we could never get a long and always have fight with every things even for small little things. Every time we argue, I felt abuse emotionally and verbally(she would really say awful things about me) and most of all she hit me at times and pinch me and I end up getting cuts and wounds sometimes. It scares me that I might fight back and ended up hurting her physically. At most times, I just try my best to shut my mouth while keeps on saying things that really hurt me i.e. that my earnings from my work is only enough to put shelter and food for my family.
Now she wants to divorce and also threatens me that she will take everything, our house, most of my salary for child and spousal support, also she threatens me that I will never see my child again. I felt kind of scared since I'm only making 65K a year and if she's about to take 50% or more and also my pension that I've worked on for past 4 years, I'm definitely screwed. I don't really see having a good life at all after we divorce.
Anyhow, my question is that, with this in mind, what kind of things should I really expect once we get to divorce because I doubt that she will just sit there and agree with me to apply for divorce application without seeing the judge and have agreement just between me and her. As for my end, I know for myself I tried my best to be the best dad and husband as I can be. As of now, I'm not happy at all with this marriage. I felt that my wife is unsupported especially about my job and that she tells me to quit indirectly while she still in school and no job as well. But as well all know, woman doesn't see/value what they have until they lose it. Unfortunately, I married a princess..... Any points or opinion is greatly appreciated. Thank you.
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