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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 11:43 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 343
Posted By StillPaying
Are you willing to cover travel costs or do the...

Are you willing to cover travel costs or do the driving?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:04 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 343
Posted By StillPaying
Is your ex fighting against the move or the $100...

Is your ex fighting against the move or the $100 (half travel)?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 12:47 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 343
Posted By StillPaying
The fact that you see zero affect on your child...

The fact that you see zero affect on your child tells me you're doing this for yourself and your dislike of your ex rather than for your child.

Would you accept less cs or do all driving?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 12:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 119
Posted By StillPaying
Access and support are separate issues, you can't...

Access and support are separate issues, you can't prevent access due to support. You should be seeking cs now regardless of access, but bio dad has full rights regardless of past wishes.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-24-2021, 03:49 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 343
Posted By StillPaying
Speak with a lawyer before you take this to...

Speak with a lawyer before you take this to court. The debater in me sees that nothing you've said would make this a winning case for you; except that your ex agrees with it...

You've offered...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2021, 07:52 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 836
Posted By StillPaying
This is sad. You have an agreement. You know he...

This is sad. You have an agreement. You know he is paying the amount you agreed on and you also know he is missing out on thousands of dollars over the years which you agreed to as well.

The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2021, 03:03 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 836
Posted By StillPaying
He has been trying unsuccessfully for years to...

He has been trying unsuccessfully for years to get the wording fixed in accordance with their agreement. This delay will not look good on the OP. Holding it hostage will be even worse.

Ex is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2021, 12:26 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 836
Posted By StillPaying
Not if you have an agreement. Does it mention...

Not if you have an agreement. Does it mention updating support or exchanging taxes? Regret is not a material change.

Fix the wording so you can both get the child benefits, as agreed upon. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2021, 12:17 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 106
Posted By StillPaying
If there is ongoing support or s7, then yes. If...

If there is ongoing support or s7, then yes. If you're in court and dealing with child support and imputation, how is it not applicable?



It's common, just consent. This is for a cc brief...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2021, 03:38 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 302
Posted By StillPaying
I'm not sure, but it sounds like you have an UM...

I'm not sure, but it sounds like you have an UM and first appearance booked on the same day. Ex wants to skip first appearance and go straight to case conference.

You know your case isn't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2021, 03:21 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 152
Posted By StillPaying
You have a court order. Unless your ex agrees,...

You have a court order. Unless your ex agrees, court is your only option. But why would ex agree to change a 19 min commute to over 1.5 hours. Would you be ok switching custody and becoming eow? ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-20-2021, 10:30 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 302
Posted By StillPaying
Honestly, I would play dumb or at least speak...

Honestly, I would play dumb or at least speak with the other counsel. You brought the UM and was told to proceed with a case conference which you're doing, but you're not sure why the judge booked...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-20-2021, 10:23 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 567
Posted By StillPaying
Without knowing any details, unless your ex is no...

Without knowing any details, unless your ex is no longer allowed to be with her kids, I would assume this is not a material change. If there were any serious issues, it would have been an urgent...
Forum: General Chat 01-14-2021, 11:15 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 421
Posted By StillPaying
Are you sure it's not a trial management...

Are you sure it's not a trial management conference?

Have you already done the trial record and document brief?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2021, 04:03 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 836
Posted By StillPaying
That's good. Once CRA finally fixes this, your...

That's good. Once CRA finally fixes this, your ex will receive the full amount owed and any overpayment to you would be paid back.



This is how my order is written. Including a 3rd line...
Forum: General Chat 01-14-2021, 02:13 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 421
Posted By StillPaying
16 days is a long time. Is this for a...

16 days is a long time.
Is this for a conference, motion or trial?
Sounds like you're just looking for expensive updates before anything is done. Trust your lawyer until you have a valid reason...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2021, 02:06 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 836
Posted By StillPaying
Are you currently claiming 1 child or both? ...

Are you currently claiming 1 child or both?



He doesn't actually pay you csg support either. You're both paying your proper amounts owed. Once you understand that, you'll see his "pressure"...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2021, 07:16 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 292
Posted By StillPaying
Unfortunately dismissing his motion usually comes...

Unfortunately dismissing his motion usually comes at trial, at last a year from now. Including holding off on FRO.

Hard to tell on any possible access issues, but a change to his income and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2021, 03:40 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 450
Posted By StillPaying
Trials are usually booked to give extra time...

Trials are usually booked to give extra time rather than less. Your case may also not get called this trial round.

Witnesses can also be used as a scaring tactic. Up until the first day of trial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2021, 03:31 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 292
Posted By StillPaying
Fighting for status quo suggests they're not...

Fighting for status quo suggests they're not following an order.

I agree that she should just take makeup time to avoid this mess. If he's an hour or day late with drop off, she should do the same.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2021, 03:26 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 292
Posted By StillPaying
That's assuming your ex decides to play nice on...

That's assuming your ex decides to play nice on his own.
More likely he continues, now with an extra couple thousand dollars.

With or without your UM, his motion to change continues.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2021, 04:15 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 292
Posted By StillPaying
Did you refile or request another UM? Why would...

Did you refile or request another UM? Why would the judge deny it, say go to CC, then book another UM? Did you pay costs the first time?



That's not how OTS's work, but it may scare the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2021, 03:27 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 450
Posted By StillPaying
Highly unlikely it will actually be that long. ...

Highly unlikely it will actually be that long.



A lawyer would ignore the mud and focus on facts. 3 months is plenty of time, and most likely much less than 300k.



How far away? This...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2021, 02:59 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 292
Posted By StillPaying
You're right to oppose the demands, not sure if...

You're right to oppose the demands, not sure if imputing has merit.
The access issues will be dealt with in court, most likely with a slap on the wrist and less sympathy towards an imputation...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2021, 11:49 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 450
Posted By StillPaying
You can do it! 👍 The good part is that...

You can do it! 👍

The good part is that you don't have to do much. You're joint/5050. Ex is looking to change that, so it'll be on them to prove it. They either have proof, which means the...
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