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Forum: Introductions 04-10-2019, 04:43 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 307
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
Whatever you do, make sure your finances are...

Whatever you do, make sure your finances are separate. Also, figure out and document the marital assets as of the date of separation.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2019, 08:51 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 242
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
As Child Support is (supposed to be) for the...

As Child Support is (supposed to be) for the child, I don't see how she can justify an increase in SS.

However, SS is the "Wild West" of Family Law, and they could have just about anything in...
Forum: Political Issues 04-04-2019, 09:53 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,426
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
I learnt that the system must be specifically...

I learnt that the system must be specifically designed to inflict the most psychological pain possible on its victims.

That case conferences and settlement conferences are a complete waste of time...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-04-2019, 09:49 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 270
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
Do you think that any of it results in an...

Do you think that any of it results in an additional income stream?

Do you think that these assets should be split as part of equalization?

I'm not sure how robust "discovery" is in Family...
Forum: General Chat 04-02-2019, 09:47 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 231
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
So the data from the article seems to imply that...

So the data from the article seems to imply that the "wage" gap is actually a "child" gap.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-27-2019, 09:43 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 207
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
Have you read through the SSAG? ...

Have you read through the SSAG?
https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/spousal-epoux/ssag-ldfpae.html
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-21-2019, 10:59 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 732
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
I have no problem with the father trying to...

I have no problem with the father trying to salvage his reputation, especially if this was the case of a vengeful mother using the police as a weapon against him.

Here's an example of the articles...
Forum: Divorce Support 03-13-2019, 09:04 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 396
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
I feel for you. There's no better way to...

I feel for you.

There's no better way to ensure the destruction of a relationship than to keep a running scorecard of past sins. Over time, the list can only get longer until it destroys the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-13-2019, 08:58 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,039
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
An experience, good lawyer should have a gut feel...

An experience, good lawyer should have a gut feel as to a likely outcome is in your case. I was in a similar situation to yours and will never forget the feeling of rage, hopelessness, and panic...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-07-2019, 11:51 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 587
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
I think you're right. It's been a while since I...

I think you're right. It's been a while since I read the SSAG.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-07-2019, 09:12 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 587
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
Search for and read the SSAG: ...

Search for and read the SSAG: https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/spousal-epoux/ssag-ldfpae.html

First step is to see if she is even entitled. Why was she working part time? Your kids are no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-01-2019, 05:06 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,110
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
In my experience, if you make a reasonable offer...

In my experience, if you make a reasonable offer to settle, and include the information in your settlement conference brief, the judge should basically tell your ex that he is being unreasonable and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-01-2019, 09:38 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,110
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
Are there any really important issues? Such as...

Are there any really important issues? Such as custody?

In my case, the only issues were financial and nothing was a real emergency. The case conference and settlement conference were a colossal...
Forum: General Chat 02-21-2019, 08:16 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,244
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
He died Wednesday night so you don't have to...

He died Wednesday night so you don't have to worry about the money.

I haven't seen any articles that commented on the family's background or the mental health or state of the father so won't...
Forum: General Chat 02-17-2019, 01:06 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,244
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
It's really too bad that the two independent...

It's really too bad that the two independent issues are intertwined; the tragic death of a child and a terribly implemented amber alert system. Hopefully, the implementers of the amber alert system...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2019, 12:59 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 292
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
I've heard mention of looking at the last 3...

I've heard mention of looking at the last 3 years, especially in cases of varying income, such as when one spouse is paid on commission, bonuses, or is self employed.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-14-2018, 08:24 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,888
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
9 days!?! If the father hadn't self-rep'd,...

9 days!?!

If the father hadn't self-rep'd, he would have been bankrupt. I'd hate to think what a 9 day trial would cost in legal fees.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-23-2018, 01:00 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 411
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
I'm pretty sure that any assets between the day...

I'm pretty sure that any assets between the day you married and the day you separated are split 50-50 no matter who paid for them. I don't know of any wiggle room. As such, I would think that a...
Forum: Political Issues 10-17-2018, 08:51 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,094
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
I've heard both sides. A well prepared,...

I've heard both sides. A well prepared, respectful self-rep will probably get some help from a reasonable judge to keep things moving along. An unprepared, emotional, quarrelsome self-rep will...
Forum: Introductions 08-27-2018, 08:49 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 678
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
101, In any case, you will need to fill out...

101,

In any case, you will need to fill out that form 13, financial disclosure at some point. Nothing happens without it. You don't need a lawyer for this. Hopefully, you've agreed on a date of...
Forum: Introductions 08-24-2018, 08:57 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 678
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
Really sorry you have to go through this. It...

Really sorry you have to go through this. It seems that the Family Court system was designed to inflict maximum pain on us in our most vulnerable moments.

I only have a couple of words of advice:...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-20-2018, 08:45 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 580
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
Mine took about 2 years.

Mine took about 2 years.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-20-2018, 08:44 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 427
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
I always thought that it went from the date of...

I always thought that it went from the date of Separation, which could be when one person simply announces, "I'm done."

Assets/debt before that date are shared. Assets/debt after are not. You...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2018, 08:41 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 522
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
Just curious, what do the the courts do to...

Just curious, what do the the courts do to enforce access? Are there ever any real consequences of not allowing access?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-03-2018, 10:50 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 761
Posted By ifonlyihadknown
Showing that she is lying, in front of a judge,...

Showing that she is lying, in front of a judge, on her financial form 13s, etc. can only help you. If she's shown to be lying it discredits everything else she says.

Could you get someone you...
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