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Forum: Parenting Issues 07-23-2009, 03:45 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,322
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
First, why would you listen for an hour to abuse...

First, why would you listen for an hour to abuse on the phone. You can hang up.

Second, is it about the paper agreement or the kid? If his request is workable, then why no just agree to it? ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-23-2009, 03:40 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,254
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
Welcome to the club Bailey! My ex uses the "we"...

Welcome to the club Bailey! My ex uses the "we" nonsense all the time too. Before she moved in with her child-husband (13 years her junior), our communication was fine. After they moved in, I was...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-26-2009, 02:28 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,519
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
This is too much. It really is a windfall for...

This is too much. It really is a windfall for the mother. Kid is right; she doesn't have to work at all. What other examples do we have in our society where people receive non-taxable income with...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-11-2008, 01:13 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,814
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
I agree with yearsgone. Unfortunately you will...

I agree with yearsgone. Unfortunately you will not find fairness, morality or logic in the divorce process or the courts. You will need a lawyer to be your advocate.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-01-2008, 09:45 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,913
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
My issue is related but with a little twist. We...

My issue is related but with a little twist. We have 50/50 custody/access. Agreement says request summer vacation before June 1. She did that. I didn't because of several changes in life...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-30-2008, 01:31 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 3,929
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
Well said.

Well said.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-29-2008, 03:01 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 3,929
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
I just spoke to my lawyer yesterday regarding a...

I just spoke to my lawyer yesterday regarding a situation like this. He just wrapped up a case where he represented the father who earned $5k/yr less than the mom. But, he was married to a woman...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-24-2008, 12:33 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 3,929
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
Your husband could make a claim for Undue...

Your husband could make a claim for Undue Financial Hardship. In that case, there would be a comparison of standard of living between the two homes and financial disclosure would be required of all...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-21-2008, 06:43 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,408
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
I've seen a three year average used.

I've seen a three year average used.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-20-2008, 10:12 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,354
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
I've never been to court other than to register...

I've never been to court other than to register agreement. Never been before a judge. No case conference. This is just an annual adjustment.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-20-2008, 07:11 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,354
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
FRO and Minutes of Settlement

The FRO told me that they can not act on "Minutes of Settlement" and that the Minutes have to be registered with the Court.

Is this easy? Can I do this myself or does my lawyer have to get...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-16-2008, 01:44 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,269
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
Thanks for the reply. What I did was called the...

Thanks for the reply. What I did was called the FRO. Apparently there are two issues in my case. First, a "Statement of Arrears" was filed by recipient. I filed a sword affidavit showing that I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-01-2008, 09:23 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,269
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
Dealing with FRO

I just got a letter from FRO stating that I'm $3500 in arrears. This is not true and last June I faxed them a letter with all documents to show that I'm up to date. Of course, they never replied...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2007, 10:52 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,017
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
Undue hardship only works one way. A support...

Undue hardship only works one way. A support recipient can't claim this - only a payor.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-29-2007, 03:17 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,871
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
Agree with previous two. The school should know...

Agree with previous two. The school should know about the other parent.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2007, 02:34 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,005
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
I disagree. One's morality and application of...

I disagree. One's morality and application of moral principles is independent of the actions or morality of someone else.

You can take the "high road" and also keep yourself out of a cardboard...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-18-2007, 09:47 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,005
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
I think the "multiple letters to ex's lawyer"...

I think the "multiple letters to ex's lawyer" tactic is pretty pathetic. What is your objective? Is it to bankrupt the ex? Or is it to come to a settlement and get on with your life?

Let's not...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-14-2007, 03:42 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,528
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
I received the same letter stating that I was in...

I received the same letter stating that I was in arrears and that I needed to provide all that financial info. I ignored it. I'm not in arrears and it'll have to be a judge that orders me to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2007, 06:25 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,348
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
Keep in mind that you can still be separated and...

Keep in mind that you can still be separated and live in the same house. You just have to declare that you are not living as husband and wife and set a separation date.

Stick it out. I know what...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-30-2007, 12:39 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,536
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
Unfortunately, you won't likely be successful in...

Unfortunately, you won't likely be successful in achieving sole custody because your wife moves in with someone else. You have basically no control over what your wife does with her life in regards...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2007, 10:19 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 4,867
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
The thread is titled "What Would You Do?" ...

The thread is titled "What Would You Do?"

I wouldn't be in this position in the first place - my fight for access would have started long before this type of situation but, if thrust into this,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2007, 10:14 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 4,867
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
This is a very sad story. Who is the winner...

This is a very sad story. Who is the winner here? Certainly not the daughter. Very sad.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-09-2007, 09:26 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,173
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
Property Settlement Error

I have just found an error in the Property Settlement from 2004. It came to light after a Privacy Act request and reply received yesterday. The Privacy Act request was on another subject but the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-05-2007, 02:06 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,885
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
What difference does it make? You have no...

What difference does it make? You have no control over it and can't really do anything about it. It is a bit wierd but I would worry more about how you react to it in front of your kids than the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-28-2007, 11:42 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,632
Posted By DadofTwoGirls
I agree with DD and LV. I pay the daycare myself...

I agree with DD and LV. I pay the daycare myself and have a receipt issued to me. If you pay the ex, you can't claim child care expenses.

In a 50/50 parenting regime, each parent gets 6 mos...
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