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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-27-2021, 02:10 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 62
Posted By Helpmyspouse
No contact order

A few years ago I got court order that keeps ex away from me or no contact. It also says ex can only have contact with children supervised at an access center. He has not seen our kids since 2014...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-27-2021, 01:41 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 404
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Angry He sounds decent enough and his story is...

He sounds decent enough and his story is heartbreaking. Why can't his ex take less in child support for a bit until he can get himself an apartment. It's not like it would be forever since he is...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-14-2021, 11:44 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 173
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Be prepared for your situation to drag on. The...

Be prepared for your situation to drag on. The lawyers see all that equity so they know their fees are secured. When they say your financials they have already calculated how much they will drain...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-13-2021, 10:31 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 173
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I second that. I'm at 7 years....

I second that. I'm at 7 years....
Forum: Financial Issues 02-07-2021, 09:43 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,314
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Talking *sets reminder for 12 months* *opens bag of...

*sets reminder for 12 months*

*opens bag of popcorn*

*waits for it to all blow up*


Now that is funny. I was going to post the same thing.. check back with us in 6 months actually and let...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-07-2021, 11:13 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,314
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Rocksan is 100 per cent right. You need to both...

Rocksan is 100 per cent right. You need to both seek legal advice. You said both kids are with you. Are you saying you have full custody of the 16 year old and she has access? Just curious.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-07-2021, 09:33 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,314
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Unless you get the help from a good therapist you...

Unless you get the help from a good therapist you risk taking her back for the wrong reasons. And/or you will never be able to move on. Like the other poster said you are all over the place. You...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-16-2021, 07:14 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 186
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Pension to LIRA transfer

In our settlement agreement and due to equalization , my ex is entitled to a portion of my pension. It was not an automatic thing. Apparently my ex has to fill out a form and make an application for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-07-2020, 08:13 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 257
Posted By Helpmyspouse
That's a good question. My file is 2 rolling...

That's a good question. My file is 2 rolling briefcases large. I was not given a copy of the entire file. I was only given a copy of the final settlement and originals of all the court orders. There...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-05-2020, 08:12 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 455
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Unhappy Sorry but I blame the lawyers because they can...

Sorry but I blame the lawyers because they can get away with it lining their own pockets. It's not what's best for the children, or What's best for the parent, it's what is best for the lawyers. The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-24-2020, 09:21 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 650
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I sympathize with you and it's true she can come...

I sympathize with you and it's true she can come back for more any time. I've been told the same thing. Even if the ex agrees to sign off on any future spousal they can still come back and try for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2020, 02:55 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 385
Posted By Helpmyspouse
It's all how it is stipulated in the Court Order....

It's all how it is stipulated in the Court Order. Mine says I don't need ex permission or signature to obtain passports and I don't need his permission to travel with them outside the country. They...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-26-2020, 06:15 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,383
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Thumbs up tilt, that is an excellent idea!

tilt, that is an excellent idea!
Forum: Divorce Support 08-25-2020, 03:04 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,383
Posted By Helpmyspouse
She is playing games and that's why she asked for...

She is playing games and that's why she asked for heads up because she knows when to expect it and avoid being served. She doesn't want to be served at the house because of the kids is a fake...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-23-2020, 09:03 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 732
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I was told it makes no difference. In Ontario you...

I was told it makes no difference. In Ontario you can be physically and emotionally abused by your ex spouse and still be ordered to pay spousal. Even if the ex was charged and convicted of it. We...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2020, 05:50 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,090
Posted By Helpmyspouse
And if he gets the nanny pregnant he will have...

And if he gets the nanny pregnant he will have another mouth to feed also lowering her payout.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2020, 07:47 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,090
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Thumbs up I love your post Arabian!

I love your post Arabian!
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2020, 07:45 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,090
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Thumbs down Seriously, why are you even getting married?...

Seriously, why are you even getting married? Seems less stressful to not even bother rather than being on a divorce forum figuring out how to take him to the cleaners. Nobody wins in a divorce....
Forum: General Chat 07-13-2020, 11:54 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 2,446
Posted By Helpmyspouse
You have given sound and great advice but there...

You have given sound and great advice but there are a lot of lawyers that know how to play the system. Mediation is often sold to the parties by being told you can try mediation for $10,000 or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-08-2020, 08:01 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 282
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Divorce certificate

Once your lawyer files divorce papers for uncontested divorce how long does it take before its granted and you receive divorce certificate.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2020, 06:12 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,051
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I had to get a court order to force the sale of...

I had to get a court order to force the sale of my home but I also had to get a court order to list and sell without ex spouse consent. You need both orders in my opinion because you can list it but...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-02-2020, 10:48 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 377
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Thanks for the great replies. I had not thought...

Thanks for the great replies. I had not thought about the CPP credit splitting I was too focused on my work pension that he will get half of due to evaluation.
I asked my lawyer about this and he...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-29-2020, 01:29 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 377
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Equalization and Pension

During the equalization calculations it was determined that my ex spouse is entitled to half my pension. Our separation date is 2014. I have since 2014 still been working and obviously accumulating...
Forum: General Chat 06-28-2020, 07:45 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 2,446
Posted By Helpmyspouse
You are not liking that she is asking for a third...

You are not liking that she is asking for a third of pension but has the equalization been calculated? She may be entitled to more. When equalization was calculated for my case, I owe my ex spouse...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-22-2020, 07:13 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,346
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I agree with Rocksan. Ignoring her is the best...

I agree with Rocksan. Ignoring her is the best you can do. Just be glad you don't live under the same roof with her anymore so don't give her the opportunity to continue her abuse. Ignore her and...
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