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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-27-2013, 02:33 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,565
Posted By NBDad
Why in the world would YOU do all the travel? ...

Why in the world would YOU do all the travel?
YOU pick up to begin your time, SHE picks up to begin hers.

She obviously has the means to travel if she moved 5 hours away.

SHE moved...
Forum: Common Law Issues 10-09-2013, 10:46 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,335
Posted By NBDad
Yep...i see that... always interested in your...

Yep...i see that... always interested in your situation...it's fairly unique on here. What a shitshow :D
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-09-2013, 10:39 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,026
Posted By NBDad
Any legal document that pertains to the children...

Any legal document that pertains to the children (ie. custody/access) SHOULD be a part of the child's school record.

The children cannot access it, and the school should be aware of who has access...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-09-2013, 10:35 AM
Replies: 77
Views: 6,337
Posted By NBDad
Legal parenting vs. what the school policy...

Legal parenting vs. what the school policy requires to be happy? Different animals. You're confusing the two.



As I said, ex then writes a letter for the school file, granting their spouse...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-09-2013, 09:36 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,316
Posted By NBDad
Line 150 of your tax return. Don't...

Line 150 of your tax return.



Don't take legal advice from your ex, or their lawyer.

In this case, the ex's lawyer is blatantly incorrect. IF the child is over the age of majority, AND no...
Forum: Common Law Issues 10-09-2013, 09:14 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,335
Posted By NBDad
How did it turn out for you?

How did it turn out for you?
Forum: Common Law Issues 10-09-2013, 09:13 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,650
Posted By NBDad
Has she proved entitlement to spousal? Did her...

Has she proved entitlement to spousal?
Did her health issues exist prior to your relationship?
How long were you together?
Forum: Financial Issues 10-09-2013, 09:10 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 533
Posted By NBDad
Get a reasonable offer to settle over to the...

Get a reasonable offer to settle over to the other side. Sit down with your lawyer, lay out your bottom line, and get an offer to settle drawn up and submitted to the ex. You WANT to have a date to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-09-2013, 09:05 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 473
Posted By NBDad
Does your ex have a lawyer? What kind of...

Does your ex have a lawyer?
What kind of federal document?

You should file a motion for contempt, and request as part of it an order removing his signature as a requirement. (AND/OR just bring...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-09-2013, 09:01 AM
Replies: 77
Views: 6,337
Posted By NBDad
OH how horrible it would be for the child to have...

OH how horrible it would be for the child to have FOUR adults that care for them, rather than 2. However will they manage.



My ex is batshit insane. Does her new hubby go instead of me? no. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-14-2013, 02:38 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,844
Posted By NBDad
CS doesn't count as income and therefore has no...

CS doesn't count as income and therefore has no effect. SS MIGHT, I don't recall offhand.

Anything that effects line 150 of her return will impact CCTB.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-14-2013, 02:36 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 736
Posted By NBDad
You are paying voluntarily? No current order? ...

You are paying voluntarily? No current order? If that is the case, you simply notify the other side of your reduction in income, and state that in 30 days the voluntary payments will be reduced to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-14-2013, 01:32 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 907
Posted By NBDad
1. Is there no existing overnight access for your...

1. Is there no existing overnight access for your ex?

- why not?

2. Your offers (without knowing more details), appear at face value to be at least a reasonable starting point, and should help...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-14-2013, 01:22 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 962
Posted By NBDad
It costs CRA around $50-100/hour to investigate a...

It costs CRA around $50-100/hour to investigate a claim of fraud. Unless you are talking TENS OF THOUSANDS of dollars, it's peanuts and reporting it typically does little more than make you feel a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2013, 11:17 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,328
Posted By NBDad
Go and read THE LIST...

Go and read THE LIST (http://forum.dadsdivorce.com/viewtopic.php?t=13374)

Mentally prepare yourself for 1-3 years of absolute hell.

Welcome to family law.

In the end, you can reasonably...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2013, 11:08 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,965
Posted By NBDad
Call the FRO case worker. Or at least budget so...

Call the FRO case worker. Or at least budget so that you are not counting on the support to come on X day. It should be looked at as "extra income" not, "I'm going to lose my house/can't afford to...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-12-2013, 08:00 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,197
Posted By NBDad
Agree 100% with Mess. If the ex is claiming...

Agree 100% with Mess.

If the ex is claiming he wants shared parenting let him have it. It's in the children's best interests (unless one of you is unfit/a danger/etc).

JOINT LEGAL CUSTODY...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-12-2013, 07:47 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,323
Posted By NBDad
Assets are split separately. Unless the income...

Assets are split separately. Unless the income would then show up on your income taxes and affect your line 150, it's not considered "income" for CS purposes.

I imagine that it could be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2013, 07:18 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,519
Posted By NBDad
I believe WorkingDad's case puts a self repped...

I believe WorkingDad's case puts a self repped litigant's cost at $150/hour.
Just saying. :D
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2013, 07:14 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,063
Posted By NBDad
Of course you would also walk in there, already...

Of course you would also walk in there, already having those financials, and having paid a Chartered Accountant to do a brief summary of what that crap load of info means.

Counter with an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2013, 10:53 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 679
Posted By NBDad
So what has the ex been defaulting on exactly? ...

So what has the ex been defaulting on exactly? The taxes? Not paying spousal?
Are the CC's that he is supposed to be paying "joint"? ie. is your name on them?

The only issues I see are the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2013, 11:27 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,521
Posted By NBDad
You DID get the incident file number from the...

You DID get the incident file number from the local police station yes?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2013, 11:26 AM
Replies: 80
Views: 4,510
Posted By NBDad
Stop taking legal advice from your ex. If he...

Stop taking legal advice from your ex.

If he believes this, the onus in on HIM to put forward a motion, provide the evidence to back his assertion/etc.

If he does NOT do this, then the order...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2013, 02:20 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,056
Posted By NBDad
Standard minimums are Every other weekend and one...

Standard minimums are Every other weekend and one evening through the week. You have less than that...how the heck did that happen and why did your lawyer not fix that already?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2013, 02:00 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,056
Posted By NBDad
I'm still wondering how the hell you have LESS...

I'm still wondering how the hell you have LESS than the standard minimums.
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