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Forum: Financial Issues 11-25-2011, 10:31 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,180
Posted By gumby
You know shift work can be the best sometimes...

You know shift work can be the best sometimes with kids - the early shift means you can always pick up at school and be involved at the school (a luxury for 9-5 ers). Nights means you can bring them...
Forum: General Chat 11-25-2011, 10:18 PM
Replies: 112
Views: 12,791
Posted By gumby
Wow! 500 pages...I better get to work.... Did...

Wow! 500 pages...I better get to work....
Did the judge seem to you like he had read everything? Did you actually use all that stuff or did you just pull out specific examples to prove your points?...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-25-2011, 10:12 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 7,657
Posted By gumby
Neverending is right but try not to get too...

Neverending is right but try not to get too worked up about it. Judges will not be too interested in the mudslinging and will not even mention it in most cases (never at a case conference).
Just...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-25-2011, 10:06 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,756
Posted By gumby
CP may file a motion - not sure if expenses of...

CP may file a motion - not sure if expenses of that nature will be allowed? Is it reasonable given both parents income level?
If CP is seeking to bar NCP from attending due to non-payment, get that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-25-2011, 10:00 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,432
Posted By gumby
Yes it's the house. He probably quite wisely...

Yes it's the house. He probably quite wisely does not want to sign over the only thing he has for his kids. I am below the poverty line and so is ex and we do not qualify because of this..
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-25-2011, 09:56 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,208
Posted By gumby
Thank you Mess That sounds quite reasonable and...

Thank you Mess
That sounds quite reasonable and fair and I am documenting. It does depend on the kind of form they are signing and the impact on the child, etc.
I just don't want it to turn...
Forum: General Chat 11-23-2011, 04:14 PM
Replies: 112
Views: 12,791
Posted By gumby
Congratulations! It is very heartening to hear...

Congratulations!
It is very heartening to hear of someone like me who works a lot of hours being so successful self-repping at trial. Especially prevailing over the fake "status quo" that so often...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-23-2011, 04:10 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,208
Posted By gumby
non-parent/guardian signing consent forms

Hi, I have googled this and cannot find an answer anywhere.
What do you do if a non-parent/ guardian is signing consent forms without your knowledge, including ones requiring medical info?
Is...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-07-2011, 12:06 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 769
Posted By gumby
I agree RIOE but like I said I can sign her up...

I agree RIOE but like I said I can sign her up for the same activity one night a week - and them doing this kind of trumps my ability to sign her up for anything else. This was not her idea-she...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-07-2011, 12:01 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 769
Posted By gumby
LOL What I thought! However I was thinking more...

LOL What I thought!
However I was thinking more along the lines of an email letting him know that he is violating the agreement. He will not respond to email no matter what I send so it has to be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-06-2011, 11:16 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 769
Posted By gumby
opinions please

Hi everybody
I just wanted to see what other people who have 50/50 would think about this.
My kids are usually in at least one extra-curricular per school year. Usually each of us puts the kids...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-31-2011, 02:06 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,094
Posted By gumby
Why not try keeping the schedule you have in the...

Why not try keeping the schedule you have in the school year and do week on/week/off for summer holidays?
I am considering broaching the subject next year. I have the same schedule as you and...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-31-2011, 11:10 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,913
Posted By gumby
Wow thanks for the tip Rico. If we ever get to...

Wow thanks for the tip Rico. If we ever get to the point of settling I will remember that because the deduction is substantial. I don't understand why they are sending this letter because there are...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-30-2011, 07:51 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,162
Posted By gumby
Gary M. I don't check people's other posts before...

Gary M. I don't check people's other posts before replying - don't know what the op is like, where she come from, or whether she is telling the truth or not. You don't know that about anybody on...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-30-2011, 04:06 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,162
Posted By gumby
This is an issue of a child being injured, being...

This is an issue of a child being injured, being in pain and it's not ok. I am really shocked and dismayed at some of the responses here . To the op, don't post stuff like that here - some people...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-30-2011, 03:36 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,205
Posted By gumby
My ex served me by mail so I got his documents...

My ex served me by mail so I got his documents late. Then the clerk at FLIC gave me the wrong date to file my stuff (she was confused and it was a long weekend). So I wound up having to get his...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2011, 03:24 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,913
Posted By gumby
Time unfortunately to revisit this again as I...

Time unfortunately to revisit this again as I have had 3 love-letters on it from CRA.
First we filed our taxes. I sent in my RC-65 with mine. Then we sent a letter signed by both that we wanted...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-29-2011, 10:59 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,184
Posted By gumby
LOL I think that too but I am happy - everytime I...

LOL I think that too but I am happy - everytime I receive the "gift" I thank god I'm not still receiving it every day! And now I can just leave/hang up.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-29-2011, 10:55 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,443
Posted By gumby
He must be my ex's long-lost twin (lord forbid)...

He must be my ex's long-lost twin (lord forbid) :D
It is imperative though that you are not "miserable" without the kids. No matter what happens, he will probably have the kids at least part of the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-29-2011, 10:36 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,992
Posted By gumby
Do the negative billing email. "If I don't hear...

Do the negative billing email. "If I don't hear from you by xxx I will assume you (agree/disagree)." When you go to court, I don't think a judge will be impressed by his "radio silence" especially...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-29-2011, 10:20 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,520
Posted By gumby
Really it sounds a bit odd to me. I agree it is...

Really it sounds a bit odd to me.
I agree it is not "abuse" - a lot of people do that when the tooth is really loose.
You don't want them to swallow their first tooth.
I never did it with my...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-29-2011, 10:10 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,443
Posted By gumby
Is my ex your ex? Sounds identical, same...

Is my ex your ex?
Sounds identical, same motivation too. It's about punishing you for ...let me guess, did you end the relationship? It's about power and control. What bugs me is it's not good...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-20-2011, 10:52 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 4,994
Posted By gumby
Sounds to me like she is jealous because your...

Sounds to me like she is jealous because your daughter is having fun at the camper. Ignore it.
My ex does things with the kids that I know are mildly risky but I wouldn't make an issue of it...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-04-2011, 06:58 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,224
Posted By gumby
Find out if you can what she has bought, sold...

Find out if you can what she has bought, sold etc. in the past year. Then contrast that with what she says is her income. If you are on a motion or trial give the judge a specific number as to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-04-2011, 06:35 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 2,032
Posted By gumby
Thanks for the advice and support Pursuing...

Thanks for the advice and support Pursuing Happiness.
The fact is many on this board who have 50/50 don't have the same issues we have. I know couples with 50/50 where it works well - they each...
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