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Forum: Financial Issues Today, 03:08 PM
Replies: 30
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Posted By rockscan
All of that is considered marital debt and...

All of that is considered marital debt and expenses. You cant argue you deserve extra money because you put him through school. The court doesnt look at it that way. Plus you waited four years and...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 10:45 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 666
Posted By rockscan
Or you thought you were entitled like you are now...

Or you thought you were entitled like you are now and you wasted money on a fight.

Now your ex was out of work and lived off you. Your story keeps changing. Im sure his side would be quite...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-08-2021, 05:50 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 4,409
Posted By rockscan
He is headed to trial this year. TMC is in May I...

He is headed to trial this year. TMC is in May I believe he said earlier.


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Forum: Financial Issues 04-07-2021, 01:46 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 666
Posted By rockscan
Id like to note that my career is based on my...

Id like to note that my career is based on my college diploma and I make a very healthy salary. Sure I worked hard to get here but I also wouldnt make a bone headed decision to quit and start my...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-07-2021, 01:44 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 666
Posted By rockscan
He isnt putting you out into the streets. You...

He isnt putting you out into the streets. You chose to open a business and pay your new bf rather than take an income. You are also wasting money on legal arguments to create entitlement. Your ex is...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-07-2021, 12:51 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 666
Posted By rockscan
Oh iona, go back and read this ones posts. She...

Oh iona, go back and read this ones posts. She quit her relatively high paying job to start her own business, pays her new bf a salary but not herself and has expected her ex to pay for her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-07-2021, 10:14 AM
Replies: 65
Views: 4,409
Posted By rockscan
Depending on how your trial is, you may be able...

Depending on how your trial is, you may be able to use affidavits. If you want witness testimony though you should have them actually testify. Especially if they are an expert. Plus the other side...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-07-2021, 09:16 AM
Replies: 65
Views: 4,409
Posted By rockscan
Then your offer is pretty solid. TMC is...

Then your offer is pretty solid.

TMC is basically outlining your argument, who you may call as witnesses, what you are seeking and anything else needed to trial.

Do you have a lawyer?


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Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2021, 10:40 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 666
Posted By rockscan
And herein lies your problem. You will be...

And herein lies your problem.

You will be the loser mom for many reasons...like quitting a good paying job, spending thousands on legal fees only to lose, fighting for things you arent entitled...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-06-2021, 09:07 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 4,409
Posted By rockscan
What have the judges at your conferences said up...

What have the judges at your conferences said up to this point?


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Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2021, 06:05 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 666
Posted By rockscan
Well I also dont trust this poster on their...

Well I also dont trust this poster on their details. Which is why I suggest a forensic accountant.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-06-2021, 01:55 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 179
Posted By rockscan
The first appearance is to set a date for your...

The first appearance is to set a date for your first case conference. If she hasnt served you yet, she still has time to serve you before the conference. If childrens services is involved they may...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-06-2021, 01:11 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 165
Posted By rockscan
I have no helpful information on this request but...

I have no helpful information on this request but Im glad your kids were able to speak freely and express their concerns. Especially if your ex is going to claim he deserves more time. Plus your...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2021, 10:28 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 666
Posted By rockscan
Kinso is a lawyer and knows more than us but I...

Kinso is a lawyer and knows more than us but I would like to add that the rental income from the investment properties would be income for support purposes but the amount he had to buy them is only...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-05-2021, 05:32 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 122
Posted By rockscan
Has something changed from your original...

Has something changed from your original agreement? Have you reached a clause like ss terminates after five years? If so then the would consider the merits of the motion to change. If you want to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2021, 05:28 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 266
Posted By rockscan
You can claim rent payments just like you claim...

You can claim rent payments just like you claim property tax on your taxes.

As for the first part, a court can make an order in cases where there is an issue with where the child wants to live but...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2021, 03:11 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 266
Posted By rockscan
Whatever works in the situation you are in. If...

Whatever works in the situation you are in. If the kids want to stay in the neighbourhood and you can only afford to rent, do that. Renting is tax deductible and the market is crazy right now. Not to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2021, 03:05 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 894
Posted By rockscan
Even if it was you need to manage your reaction....

Even if it was you need to manage your reaction. You cant change them, you can only change your reaction. You can also work with your boys on managing their reaction. Add it to the topics for...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2021, 12:53 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 266
Posted By rockscan
You are giving your kids way too much power. If...

You are giving your kids way too much power. If they dont want to go to school do you let them stay home?

It doesnt matter what your agreement says, YOU and THEIR OTHER PARENT make the decisions...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2021, 10:26 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 266
Posted By rockscan
Its all in how you work together and parent...

Its all in how you work together and parent together. If you both have reasonable rules and expectations and also both enforce time with the other parent then there should be no problem. If one...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2021, 10:19 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 894
Posted By rockscan
I was an alienated child but my situation was...

I was an alienated child but my situation was complicated by two parents who had suffered childhood trauma and resultant mental health issues. It wasnt until I was in my 20s that I saw my parents...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2021, 09:10 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 190
Posted By rockscan
The problem is your agreement says nothing about...

The problem is your agreement says nothing about government benefits which means the person who files first gets it. Meaning you are out of luck. You could file with the court to change the agreement...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2021, 05:54 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 198
Posted By rockscan
You may also want to consider the reasons behind...

You may also want to consider the reasons behind the decision in criminal court. Getting off on a technicality doesnt suddenly mean you are not guilty of what happened. Your ex could still argue you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2021, 01:34 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 159
Posted By rockscan
No you cant file materials after a motion. ...

No you cant file materials after a motion.

If it was a conference and you have another one coming up then you can file updated info. For instance your motion is for reimbursement of expenses and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2021, 01:52 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 319
Posted By rockscan
This is excellent advice and I strongly encourage...

This is excellent advice and I strongly encourage it. Divorce is a death of a marriage and requires grieving like any other death. Dealing with the whys and hows causes a lot more emotional stress...
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