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Forum: General Chat 05-23-2017, 07:32 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,451
Posted By Helpless
Shit hits the fan, S7, pays price...venting

Warning, this is a venting post but your wise words are always welcomed!

Good morning to you. Some may recognize me from earlier postings or inquiries. Well shit hit the fan yesterday....AGAIN.
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Forum: General Chat 04-11-2017, 10:56 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 1,324
Posted By Helpless
Court ordered but unspecified Section7 expenses

Question of interpretation.

Here is the Child Support clauses in our agreement

Commencing Aug 1 2016, and on the first day of each month thereafter, X will pay monthly CS to respondent (me) in...
Forum: General Chat 03-13-2017, 02:26 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,826
Posted By Helpless
Another sad reality...I'm happy I have steady...

Another sad reality...I'm happy I have steady income and can support myself and my family. But it blows my mind that I have to enforce a payment of arrears that's been outstanding since 2013-14... I...
Forum: General Chat 03-13-2017, 09:21 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,826
Posted By Helpless
Agreed, but there are no repercussions when they...

Agreed, but there are no repercussions when they don`t or it takes an eternity for FRO to engage and by then, parents know that if they make a mediocre payment, they`re safe for another few months....
Forum: General Chat 03-13-2017, 09:17 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,826
Posted By Helpless
The SMS communications continued up until last...

The SMS communications continued up until last night, even after I copy pasted the same 'This is not an emergency, I have replied on OFW'.

He maintains that he will not use OFW. Is this grounds...
Forum: General Chat 03-13-2017, 09:07 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,826
Posted By Helpless
Great vent :D

Great vent :D
Forum: General Chat 03-10-2017, 10:01 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,826
Posted By Helpless
What a sad stat! I briefly skimmed through the...

What a sad stat! I briefly skimmed through the articles and information but I still wonder why this happens, is it because the fathers are disinterested, the children won't visit, mothers not...
Forum: General Chat 03-09-2017, 04:32 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,826
Posted By Helpless
Thanks for the great words of wisdom Tayken, I...

Thanks for the great words of wisdom Tayken, I really appreciate it! My motto's been "take the high road" as much as I can and I abide by my order. It just really blows my mind and it's good to have...
Forum: General Chat 03-09-2017, 04:29 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,826
Posted By Helpless
Euuhhhh my S7's well being is worth more to me...

Euuhhhh my S7's well being is worth more to me than anything in this Universe. I'm surprised you saw the word "lottery" and automatically associated it with money...

But thank you for your reply.
Forum: General Chat 03-09-2017, 12:10 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,826
Posted By Helpless
Venting away.

I was talking and venting with a friend of mine yesterday about some of the ongoing struggles I've encountered in the last six months. She doesn't have kids, never separated and evidently could not...
Forum: General Chat 10-04-2016, 01:09 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,573
Posted By Helpless
Yes, you're definitely understanding the...

Yes, you're definitely understanding the aggressive pattern.

As per CAS (from SW disclosure meeting) they ruled out physical abuse. The fact that both son's father and his spouse use marijuana in...
Forum: General Chat 10-04-2016, 12:57 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,573
Posted By Helpless
During our disclosure meeting with SW, she made...

During our disclosure meeting with SW, she made us aware that my son's father and his girlfriend had been investigated a total of 9-10 times by CAS. This was obviously news to me and quite...
Forum: General Chat 10-04-2016, 11:49 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,573
Posted By Helpless
Thank you Rockscan, I appreciate your reply and...

Thank you Rockscan, I appreciate your reply and understanding!
Forum: General Chat 10-04-2016, 11:31 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,573
Posted By Helpless
New order, more backlash, update and questions, support needed!

Good day all!
I have not been on here in quite a while. As some of you may remember, I have a S6 and was implicated in a very lengthy and high conflict separation. The following post is to put you...
Forum: General Chat 01-29-2016, 12:13 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,405
Posted By Helpless
Roller coaster ride, seeking support.

Hi all, hope you are all well!

I'm coming here to receive support and connect with parents that might have been through similar situations.

As the title states, this whole week has been the...
Forum: General Chat 05-15-2015, 07:10 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,475
Posted By Helpless
I realize that I may seem to be acting out of...

I realize that I may seem to be acting out of spite, I`m not. I haven`t had a normal court ordered access to my child on Mother`s day since we`ve separated, but this year`s was better than the 'Go...
Forum: General Chat 05-15-2015, 02:55 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,475
Posted By Helpless
But it`s so hard to be standing on the sidelines,...

But it`s so hard to be standing on the sidelines, with evidence of drug activity and the threat of aggressive dogs around my child...

Family law is by far the worst system. It`s never black, nor...
Forum: General Chat 05-15-2015, 01:18 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,475
Posted By Helpless
Thanks everyone! Here was the initial...

Thanks everyone!

Here was the initial response I got from my lawyer when I asked her what the repercussions of withholding access would be. I was on the fence about actually going through with...
Forum: General Chat 05-15-2015, 11:25 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,475
Posted By Helpless
First posting, should you want to familiarize...

First posting, should you want to familiarize yourself with previous posting.

http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f7/venting-when-will-enough-enough-18660/
Forum: General Chat 05-15-2015, 11:13 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,475
Posted By Helpless
When will enough be enough...Part 2

Good morning all,

I'm posting again looking for some guidance, support and I know some of you might have been through family court processes.

As the title indicates, this is a second part to...
Forum: General Chat 02-28-2015, 09:53 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,448
Posted By Helpless
Thanks for all the info folks, much appreciated!

Thanks for all the info folks, much appreciated!
Forum: General Chat 02-27-2015, 10:05 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,448
Posted By Helpless
Thinking of joining the Forces...

I have a few questions, I've done research but have not seen any relevant information or answers. I'm seeking advice of members, more so, from mothers with young children who've gone through the...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-22-2015, 09:24 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 28,574
Posted By Helpless
It's sad that you had to go through that, you or...

It's sad that you had to go through that, you or anyone for that matter! My heart goes out to you and your children! True colors always show up in divorce.

I volunteer for the first responder...
Forum: General Chat 02-21-2015, 11:05 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 4,793
Posted By Helpless
Great learning experience, not so great for your...

Great learning experience, not so great for your physical states, aches and pains, yuk!! Glad to hear you're alright!

As for the OP, hang in there, breath and try and see the good and positive in...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-21-2015, 10:56 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 28,574
Posted By Helpless
Yes those are great avenues to take when you fear...

Yes those are great avenues to take when you fear for you or your children's physical safety!

I had 60 pages of text messages (a years worth) from ex that were incredibly hostile, aggressive and...
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