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Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2022, 02:00 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 236
Posted By StillPaying
As they get older, it's just easier to...

As they get older, it's just easier to communicate through kids but this is more about your Christmas holidays. If this is out of the blue, I wouldn't mind saying no and to reschedule in summer....
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2022, 01:50 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 696
Posted By StillPaying
1. Ask for it. 2. Get conference judge to...

1. Ask for it.
2. Get conference judge to order it.
3. Motion for consequences (fees, expenses, costs, imputation, assign value for assets/debt, strike pleadings, etc)

You won't get away with...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2022, 10:11 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 696
Posted By StillPaying
Your comments imply you are assuming how...

Your comments imply you are assuming how financial disclosure works. 5 banks?! A bank won't even give you your spouse's details on a joint account. We're forced to get a full account report and a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-15-2022, 05:13 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 696
Posted By StillPaying
wthwt You don't locate bank account...

wthwt

You don't locate bank account statements, you request them from ex and track every dollar coming and going. It's on ex to provide, not you to hunt down.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-15-2022, 10:59 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 696
Posted By StillPaying
Credit applications are just the low hanging...

Credit applications are just the low hanging fruit where people disclose their incomes or may lie about it. If you're dealing with exempt incomes, they're useless- same for obvious incomes.

Bank...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-15-2022, 10:40 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 183
Posted By StillPaying
Sounds like you need a lawyer and a court order....

Sounds like you need a lawyer and a court order. While cs stops, your ss may equally increase for the remaining years.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2022, 10:28 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 164
Posted By StillPaying
An affidavit goes with motions. A motion to...

An affidavit goes with motions. A motion to change is an application, not a motion. You don't do a 14A with your application which already outlines everything. That's why it's not included in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-12-2022, 02:07 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 887
Posted By StillPaying
With a cost award added on top of everything...

With a cost award added on top of everything else, for being unreasonable. Again- not great advice.

1. Mum has education, dad is successful and can afford it.
2. There have been no gap years or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-11-2022, 09:18 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 887
Posted By StillPaying
That doesn't even make sense. Definitely disagree...

That doesn't even make sense. Definitely disagree with this one.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-10-2022, 03:53 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 887
Posted By StillPaying
I disagree with this one. Mum has a degree. Dad...

I disagree with this one. Mum has a degree. Dad doesn't but is successful/can afford it. It would be assumed kid would get a degree as well - which even in a different area would create better...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-06-2022, 12:55 PM
Replies: 108
Views: 2,517
Posted By StillPaying
You believe ex's live large on cs, ow, odsp - so...

You believe ex's live large on cs, ow, odsp - so I'm not surprised you feel the disability tax credit supports the disabled's needs.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-06-2022, 12:50 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 1,553
Posted By StillPaying
Kids are fine with week about, it's usually the...

Kids are fine with week about, it's usually the parents that feel it's too long. And alienation should not occur with 50/50 access unless you're giving the kids reasons to believe your ex.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-06-2022, 12:45 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,053
Posted By StillPaying
Your lack of knowledge is as obvious as your lack...

Your lack of knowledge is as obvious as your lack of care for children. You should research child support before making absurb comments.

1. You believe step dad should be paying your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-05-2022, 11:55 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 2,517
Posted By StillPaying
The same great logic could be said about the OP....

The same great logic could be said about the OP. Allowing ex to stay home half their marriage, then heartbroken discovering ss.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-05-2022, 11:24 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 327
Posted By StillPaying
I doubt rule of 65 will apply here. Equalization...

I doubt rule of 65 will apply here. Equalization will handle most of OPs concerns, but ss seems reasonable (obviously not indefinite). $12,000 would be a sweet deal to OP, but obviously comes with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-05-2022, 11:17 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 258
Posted By StillPaying
Disclosure is the basic procedural order made -...

Disclosure is the basic procedural order made - more at case conferences. Once you get further along, especially with your case management judge, more and more orders are made including some on the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-05-2022, 11:09 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 2,517
Posted By StillPaying
Paying lump sum is a known risk, which can be...

Paying lump sum is a known risk, which can be overturned. Just like any other agreement, material changes can arise. We hope it'll be the end of it, but know it may be brought up again... which is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-04-2022, 07:39 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 743
Posted By StillPaying
That email does not help your case. You're not...

That email does not help your case. You're not available when offered and don't appreciate ex using other options. Is ex claiming you're controlling?
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-04-2022, 07:36 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 1,553
Posted By StillPaying
While week about access may create little issues...

While week about access may create little issues for sports, the one exchange per week saves from many other issues:

- school, holidays, pa/sick days, homework, appointments, less work - easier...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-04-2022, 07:30 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 258
Posted By StillPaying
The sc judge, most likely your case management...

The sc judge, most likely your case management judge, can definitely make orders without your consent. And what matters is not 2012 but 2019 where you agreed not to move.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-04-2022, 07:26 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,053
Posted By StillPaying
You keep making stuff up - not sure why. ...

You keep making stuff up - not sure why.
They've been separated for 2 years and ex has been "lazy", not completing her license for 5 years. There's no what-ifs or maybes. He was ok with it until...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-04-2022, 12:23 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 327
Posted By StillPaying
Why portray the victim? If access is 50/50,...

Why portray the victim?
If access is 50/50, cs will be offset.
If access is 50/50, CCB will be split.
Your ex did multiple moves for you, stayed home for kids, and makes way less than you. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-29-2022, 03:06 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 1,553
Posted By StillPaying
School exchanges are great for HCP's and the...

School exchanges are great for HCP's and the newly separated, where professionals recommend it, but it is not convenient and creates more work. It depends on your schedule, but for me since ages 3...
Forum: Political Issues 07-28-2022, 01:29 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 14,113
Posted By StillPaying
I think you're arguing for the sake of arguing,...

I think you're arguing for the sake of arguing, not knowing what you're saying.

If you're paying spousal support, then it really doesn't matter if it's 50/50 or kids are 100% with ex. You'll pay...
Forum: Political Issues 07-28-2022, 12:53 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 318
Posted By StillPaying
https://www.ontario.ca/page/set-up-or-update-child...

https://www.ontario.ca/page/set-up-or-update-child-support-online

This option has been available for years. Unfortunately not for offset, but should work in your case for $80.
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