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Forum: Financial Issues 09-26-2022, 08:45 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 99
Posted By Kkc
good idea, i just did that ultimately we...

good idea, i just did that

ultimately we will need case management because she is in no hurry
Forum: Financial Issues 09-26-2022, 07:34 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 99
Posted By Kkc
update and next steps?

So..this is a bit of a cluster fuck

In May, form 20 request for info. OC ignored for months. I tried dealing with ex stating I would bring a motion unless she provided info, she then agreed,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2022, 06:58 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 696
Posted By Kkc
I’m still waiting from October on a short...

I’m still waiting from October on a short motion for my results

The judge who used to be a family lawyer said…isn’t this a pretty routine thing?
And her lawyer said in 40 years I never...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2022, 03:52 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 318
Posted By Kkc
and again...i cannot simply settle the file ...

and again...i cannot simply settle the file

I have to bring a motion for her to produce her tax returns and NOAs...it's that much lack of cooperation and bad faith negotiations
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2022, 03:51 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 318
Posted By Kkc
lowering ss if ex recohabitates

hi

from my understanding when an ex remarries/repartners the non compensatory side of SS will decrease.

Right now we are still interim x 4 years as they are dragging heels

Ex BF has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2022, 06:32 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 507
Posted By Kkc
I may not be following totally My...

I may not be following totally

My understanding is ex is not providing disclosure making it difficult to truly know what child support should be

The ex has had multiple chances to provide so...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2022, 02:03 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 507
Posted By Kkc
Ask to strike pleadings if this continues

Ask to strike pleadings if this continues
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-04-2022, 03:13 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 696
Posted By Kkc
I should clarify I actually found hidden...

I should clarify

I actually found hidden bank accounts not disclosed.
Basically I traced one check..and the other she sent to me accidentally when she thought she was disclosing her rrsp

We...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-03-2022, 05:53 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 696
Posted By Kkc
Thank you for the reply We had to bring a...

Thank you for the reply

We had to bring a motion as she had hidden bank accounts

The strategy you describe by her is a possibility but she has had a judge deem her behaviour unreasonable.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-02-2022, 06:12 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 330
Posted By Kkc
Point me in the direction of the feathers to...

Point me in the direction of the feathers to ruffle

I think the difficulty is that alienation and all the tactics are not well understood.

I compare it to fibromyalgia..pain in the ass to treat...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-02-2022, 02:40 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 330
Posted By Kkc
I am very surprised by ocl and this is why I was...

I am very surprised by ocl and this is why I was told to avoid it, the person running the assessment comes in with their own beliefs and biases and it is hard to know the reputation of who you are...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-23-2022, 09:13 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 696
Posted By Kkc
i am trying to avoid a trial and trying to settle...

i am trying to avoid a trial and trying to settle

she does not and her lawyer is doing every stall delay tactic
ie: our city has a custom of no settlement conference before questioning takes...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-23-2022, 09:11 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 590
Posted By Kkc
avoid primary residence terminology she seems...

avoid primary residence terminology
she seems to have personality issues..ie claims you do behavior x but she is the one who does it
the children have shared parenting, a label to people like her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-22-2022, 04:12 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 696
Posted By Kkc
The evidence is all there, the patterns over 4...

The evidence is all there, the patterns over 4 years is obvious
Especially if we have to go a section 30. The forensics will look at her and the family and be like ummm…
I do not want to go a trial...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-22-2022, 01:27 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 696
Posted By Kkc
Our cases are different, from what I understand...

Our cases are different, from what I understand your ex was abusive
In my case, my just refuses altogether..she even refused to talk about taking one of my days so she could take daughter to a...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-20-2022, 11:04 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 364
Posted By Kkc
My adjudicated order reads He pays her x in...

My adjudicated order reads

He pays her x in ss
He pays her x in cs
She pays him x in cs

Mine required a motion and I have legal fees stretched over 3 years
Firstly, a motion that resulted in...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-19-2022, 04:48 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 696
Posted By Kkc
Deciding decision making

As background

There has never been in 4 years any adjudication of decision making and this is presumed to be shared

Ex has a bad history of not communicating important details, there’s...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-17-2022, 01:33 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 255
Posted By Kkc
it is good practice for OC to canvass dates to...

it is good practice for OC to canvass dates to ensure availability, you do not need consent, but if you are unavailable you can get it adjourned

We had a motion go against us and the judge...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2022, 10:43 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 210
Posted By Kkc
my ex lawyer was refusing to provide the...

my ex lawyer was refusing to provide the disclosure

I even found hidden bank accounts, in oral arguments, hers did a pretend they are not real no one will notice

he could have said account ex...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2022, 09:16 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 210
Posted By Kkc
the self-employed has to be even more transparent...

the self-employed has to be even more transparent with their income because they can hide it easier

the disability needs strong medical evidence
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2022, 08:44 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 210
Posted By Kkc
what rockscan said and if it is a support...

what rockscan said and if it is a support recipient, support is based on means, needs and circumstances

so if the recipient is able to use support and make investments with a return or is getting...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2022, 04:01 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 210
Posted By Kkc
Usually there is a time limit on an equalization...

Usually there is a time limit on an equalization claim
10 years??

Bank records are usually the case for a support recipient to produce

I was just in court for this and am waiting on...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2022, 09:46 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 316
Posted By Kkc
also...her lawyer said we should not disclose...

also...her lawyer said we should not disclose anything and we should let these two mediate

but then i pressed her personally to sign up, and a letter to him soon saying sign up for mediation or...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2022, 08:51 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 316
Posted By Kkc
Mediation did work for a kid agreement to get...

Mediation did work for a kid agreement to get into therapy

I think I need to expose she is insolvent at a settlement conference with a very good offer in hand

If she still stalls, I will do a...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-12-2022, 07:26 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 316
Posted By Kkc
Depends when you do questioning Varying and...

Depends when you do questioning

Varying and interim order and imputting pre trial are quite difficult as the sentiment is to get the thing to trial
In our case the judge decided that I was...
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