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Forum: Financial Issues 09-28-2022, 12:28 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 275
Posted By Bogdan
Yep .. same here. The occasional cost of losing...

Yep .. same here. The occasional cost of losing some cheap Joe Fresh clothing is the just an assumed cost of having kids with a narcissist .. and still cheaper (and less tiresome) than trying to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-28-2022, 06:10 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 261
Posted By Bogdan
Pretty much sums up my experience with this...

Pretty much sums up my experience with this matter, as well as many other ones.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-27-2022, 12:15 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 275
Posted By Bogdan
I'll comment from my experience .. not sure what...

I'll comment from my experience .. not sure what would work for you ..



I tried weekends .. it's not worth the effort as Ex would likely not take the kids to activities on her time, which ended...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-27-2022, 09:34 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 275
Posted By Bogdan
Dealing with exactly the same situation .. expect...

Dealing with exactly the same situation .. expect Ex makes more money, and I don't receive an offset due to a clause the judge put in to avoid conflict i.e. "best interest of the child".



S7...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-23-2022, 01:05 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 261
Posted By Bogdan
Might help to bring up to point a bigger picture...

Might help to bring up to point a bigger picture of issues ... but I'm not sure what the ultimate point is as it seems like the kid is alienated anyways.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-23-2022, 10:47 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 261
Posted By Bogdan
From my personal experience ... there's not much...

From my personal experience ... there's not much that a judge can or will do.

It would probably a complete waste spending any legal fees on this especially since it seems like the parent asking...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-22-2022, 11:52 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 328
Posted By Bogdan
I love the idea of a "Coles notes" of this .. and...

I love the idea of a "Coles notes" of this .. and am surprised that nothing like that really exists.

.. but it's never going to come from the people that stand to lose the most from such a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-21-2022, 10:55 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 328
Posted By Bogdan
Yep.. you nailed it Rockscan. Took me a long time...

Yep.. you nailed it Rockscan. Took me a long time to get to this realization. Kids are already seeing the BS, especially once 50/50 hit.

Btw, what exactly do you mean by "don't tolerate her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-21-2022, 10:02 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 236
Posted By Bogdan
@Rioe Strongly related .. as I dealt with...

@Rioe

Strongly related .. as I dealt with EXACTLY the same situation as you a few year back. Ex booked over my Christmas time (flights + hotels), forgot to tell me in advance, and demanded...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-21-2022, 09:16 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 328
Posted By Bogdan
Kind of sad. Seems like if the high-conflict...

Kind of sad. Seems like if the high-conflict party has deep pockets (via mommy and daddy) then they can make the other (lower income parties) life a living hell via the court and beat them into...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-21-2022, 09:06 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 328
Posted By Bogdan
I wonder my case (or even similar cases in...

I wonder my case (or even similar cases in general) .. it's just a case of a judge not wanting to put more fuel on the fire (for the best interest of the child) by agitating the high conflict parent....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-21-2022, 09:02 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 328
Posted By Bogdan
Sigh. Thanks all for responses. Seems...

Sigh.

Thanks all for responses.

Seems like I’m stuck … Ex is and continues to be in breach of some serious clauses including threatening and denying parenting access -- which she has been and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2022, 02:12 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 328
Posted By Bogdan
Cost Penalties proportional to ability to pay / income

Hi all,

Curious if there's any precedence for Cost Penalties (or even Cost Submission results) being proportional to a parties income / ability to pay. I haven't been able to find anything.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2022, 12:08 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 205
Posted By Bogdan
Yikes. Not what I expected. Seems really...

Yikes. Not what I expected.

Seems really inefficient — but I guess that’s par for the course with the legal system.

I mean with the much any (all) other “experts” , I go to them with a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-29-2022, 12:27 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 205
Posted By Bogdan
Implications of Relief TBD by Judge / Arbitrator

When filing Affidavits for Motions / Arbitrations it’s common to seek specific relief for a given problem.

I know instead of suggesting specific relief, I can instead say “to be determined at...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-19-2022, 10:30 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 264
Posted By Bogdan
An extremely important legal advice that doesn't...

An extremely important legal advice that doesn't get brought up enough, and your average lawyer won't tell you.

A lawyer will happily bill you thousands for an item that's only worth a few...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-18-2022, 09:32 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,052
Posted By Bogdan
Except when it doesn't equalize things --. i.e....

Except when it doesn't equalize things --. i.e. like the example that I gave (which I personally lived through to) where mom makes more $$, mom keeps dad sub 40% to get full CS, mom and dad need...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-17-2022, 12:25 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 794
Posted By Bogdan
Ask her first about the date before stating your...

Ask her first about the date before stating your position -- just in case she's already made imminent plans and you need to file an an urgent motion per StillBreathings comment.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-17-2022, 11:31 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 794
Posted By Bogdan
Good to know. Curious, does this generally...

Good to know.

Curious, does this generally happen only with the original parenting schedule was 50/50? Or would it also apply if full CS was being paid prior as well due to 60%+ access ?
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Forum: Parenting Issues 08-17-2022, 11:20 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 794
Posted By Bogdan
If she's talked to lawyers about this then she...

If she's talked to lawyers about this then she probably understands that she most likely won't win by going to court.

I don't believe self repping on this matter would be too hard.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-17-2022, 11:07 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 794
Posted By Bogdan
Quite frankly .. that's really shitty and...

Quite frankly .. that's really shitty and manipulative parenting on your Ex's side.

You shouldn't be the one feeling guilty about it.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-17-2022, 11:05 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 794
Posted By Bogdan
Why wouldn't he go for full CS if the move causes...

Why wouldn't he go for full CS if the move causes him to have full (60%+) custody ?

My understanding is that a move such as this is inconsequential to CS amounts ... just like if she got 60%+...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-17-2022, 10:49 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 794
Posted By Bogdan
The truth .. that his roots, friends and family...

The truth .. that his roots, friends and family are here.

That you and your Ex agree (per contract) that you would not be moving apart for your best interest.

That mommy wants to move...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-17-2022, 10:23 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 794
Posted By Bogdan
Save the money .. let her know the arrangement...

Save the money .. let her know the arrangement won't be happening and she has no chance in getting it. If she wants to file .. let her.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-17-2022, 09:17 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 794
Posted By Bogdan
Of-course she doesn't want to go to court ......

Of-course she doesn't want to go to court ... because she doesn't have a leg to stand on.

Like Brampton mentioned ... I would put your foot down on this matter. If your Ex wants to move out West...
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