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Forum: Financial Issues 08-26-2016, 04:23 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 798
Posted By Tryingsohard
No request or discussion to share expenses. There...

No request or discussion to share expenses. There are various requests, those I denied I provided an explanation for to my ex-wife.
I have not contacted the insurance company as I'm not sure they...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-26-2016, 03:48 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 798
Posted By Tryingsohard
He actually is not presenting a "defence" against...

He actually is not presenting a "defence" against my claim but rather a "defendant's claim". In other words, he is saying, you owe me $5K and I want the $2K of the refund deducted and you owe me $3K....
Forum: Financial Issues 08-26-2016, 02:34 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 798
Posted By Tryingsohard
Insurance Refund

I am the non-custodial parent and I took my child to get her wisdom teeth pulled out and paid for the procedure. The insurance went through the primary holder which is the stepfather. When I asked...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-04-2014, 12:24 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 3,061
Posted By Tryingsohard
Cheque received! I can hardly believe it! Started...

Cheque received! I can hardly believe it! Started process January 3rd and today received overpayment refund! So 3 months isn't too bad compared to the court process and no lawyer fees.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-26-2014, 09:44 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 3,061
Posted By Tryingsohard
Yes, they sent me a cheque for the overpayment as...

Yes, they sent me a cheque for the overpayment as I'm still paying for my younger kids.

I don't know how that would happen if it were only one child, in regards to recouping the overpayment?...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-23-2014, 09:43 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 3,061
Posted By Tryingsohard
Not a fan of FRO because you have to be on them...

Not a fan of FRO because you have to be on them constantly for any changes but yet they can make the changes happen. Recently dealt with changing CS from 3 to 2 children. You fill a form with the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-05-2014, 12:55 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,116
Posted By Tryingsohard
The person I consulted has been practicing family...

The person I consulted has been practicing family law for 30 years and I doubt that he would try to mislead me or Fill me with BS, he simply isn't in my city. He also spoke of having an assessment...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-04-2014, 01:34 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,116
Posted By Tryingsohard
He was referring to parents that walk into his...

He was referring to parents that walk into his office begging for the other parent to be involved with their kids. At least everyone involved in my kids' lives actually do love them even if their...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-04-2014, 12:25 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,116
Posted By Tryingsohard
I agree that communication needs to be at a...

I agree that communication needs to be at a minimum and I have emphasized that to her.
I have consulted with a family lawyer who happens to be the father of a colleague of mine and has given me...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-03-2014, 01:07 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,116
Posted By Tryingsohard
I read some of your posts too. Did you end up...

I read some of your posts too. Did you end up consulting a lawyer or was it unnecessary due to his cooperation?
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-03-2014, 12:44 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,116
Posted By Tryingsohard
Child is 12 soon to be 13. This has been his...

Child is 12 soon to be 13. This has been his desire for some time now but due to High conflict ex, I've been waiting for him to be at an age where his wishes will be considered.
I do not expect a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-02-2014, 06:57 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,116
Posted By Tryingsohard
Change of custody

I am looking into pursuing a change in custody. I am looking to self-represent but consulting with a lawyer rather than having one represent me. If anyone has any experience or knows of a lawyer in...
Forum: General Chat 01-15-2014, 09:15 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,563
Posted By Tryingsohard
Many state that over the passage of time usually...

Many state that over the passage of time usually the situation gets better. In my case it simply gets worse. Having a high conflict ex is draining, I try to keep communication to a minimum which...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-14-2014, 01:16 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,031
Posted By Tryingsohard
I'm feeling the love!

I'm feeling the love!
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-14-2014, 01:00 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,031
Posted By Tryingsohard
I appreciate these suggestions but I simply...

I appreciate these suggestions but I simply cannot see myself doing that.

My kids end up being the ones that suffer and hence my relationship with them. The mother is very vicious and this is...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-14-2014, 12:52 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,031
Posted By Tryingsohard
I should also have my access time include the two...

I should also have my access time include the two travel days.
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-14-2014, 12:04 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,031
Posted By Tryingsohard
I don't disagree with you. It has already...

I don't disagree with you. It has already compelled her to let the kids stay with me, perhaps she'll have time to rethink her position. I am incurring these costs to spend time with my kids at one of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-14-2014, 11:51 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,031
Posted By Tryingsohard
I hit where it counts the most, money. I will...

I hit where it counts the most, money. I will attend and expect the children to spend the weekend with me and return with me. Should this not occur or if my access is interfered with then I will...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2014, 04:21 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,031
Posted By Tryingsohard
Thank you for the responses.

Thank you for the responses.
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2014, 03:59 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,031
Posted By Tryingsohard
I have to disagree with you. When dealing with a...

I have to disagree with you. When dealing with a narcissist HCP then playing the tug of war feeds into their need to control and actually does damage my relationship with my kids. As I'm told that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2014, 01:29 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,031
Posted By Tryingsohard
My access times are from Thursdays to Mondays...

My access times are from Thursdays to Mondays every second weekend and the pick up and drop offs occur at the school. She tells them that they won't be coming with me and my kids are pre-teen and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2014, 01:22 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,031
Posted By Tryingsohard
I have emails stating, this tournament is during...

I have emails stating, this tournament is during your time but I will be taking them. You can have them another weekend and me stating no, hotel is booked, I only need passports. This has occurred...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2014, 01:10 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,031
Posted By Tryingsohard
I apologize if you took my comment the wrong way...

I apologize if you took my comment the wrong way however those are steps I can take to document the incidents however she will tell the kids they are not coming. I can send letters and sit in front...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2014, 11:24 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,031
Posted By Tryingsohard
Thank you for the suggestions however we are...

Thank you for the suggestions however we are dealing with a high conflict person. I am looking for the remedy to the problem.
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-10-2014, 09:42 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,031
Posted By Tryingsohard
I have attended tournaments more recently however...

I have attended tournaments more recently however when they were younger she would have the kids call me stating their mother would not let them play should I attend. I never wanted to put my kids in...
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