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Forum: Financial Issues 03-13-2021, 07:16 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 377
Posted By rhender
Shared Child Support References

Hi,


I am looking for some help to find explanations or references that describe how ordinary expenses should be shared in shared parenting arrangements. I have read on this site that the base...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-26-2020, 11:52 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 3,077
Posted By rhender
I have used this forum to get general advice and...

I have used this forum to get general advice and have no incentive to lie. It is helpful to get different opinions, but the hostility is a bit much. These messages do enforce the importance of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-19-2020, 02:44 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 3,077
Posted By rhender
Not yet. The kids are at his house for 6 days for...

Not yet. The kids are at his house for 6 days for the holidays and I am concerned she will rage, create drama and emotionally abuse the kids while they are there. Not sure how and when to respond. I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-19-2020, 10:41 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 3,077
Posted By rhender
How much is too much continued...

Is this too much?


I received a call from my child's coach (he plays high level competitive sports) that a female called the president of the association to complain about my son being on the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-12-2020, 02:47 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 449
Posted By rhender
New to Court Process

My ex said he will be filing a motion to change.


What is the timing for the process? I am hoping it will be sometime after Christmas but I don't know.


Is there any good references to learn...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-10-2020, 11:01 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 3,077
Posted By rhender
Coparenting Not Working

How bad does it have to get before a judge will reduce access time?


We have been in turmoil since my ex got into a relationship with someone I suspect has a personality disorder and is very...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-29-2020, 04:58 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 772
Posted By rhender
60% Threshold for Support

I am curious how strict the 60/40% is for determining whether it is shared custody and child support.


When I look at the actual number of days my son has stayed with us this year, it is over...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-14-2019, 07:33 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,710
Posted By rhender
Turn of events

My ex called me after that incident and said my one son is to stay with me for a few weeks. He told my son in the car, said it was his fault and my fault, and then rushed away. My son is very hurt...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-09-2019, 07:35 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,710
Posted By rhender
Never Ends

There has been more drama the last few weeks. Dad caught my son (12 years old) looking up an evil stepmom video. My ex’s partner had my son call me up crying and she accused me of lying about...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-17-2019, 08:57 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,710
Posted By rhender
Thank you for the advice. I have not been...

Thank you for the advice. I have not been responding to the countless messages from step mom. I am currently deciding which attorney to hire to at least get my ex to address concerns with the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-12-2019, 04:22 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,710
Posted By rhender
It does sound a lot like Mom 2 two - do you also...

It does sound a lot like Mom 2 two - do you also have joint custody? He wont take phone calls or respond to texts. They wont let me take the kids to activities on their time, so the kids are...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-12-2019, 04:00 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,832
Posted By rhender
As hard as it is, at least it further supports...

As hard as it is, at least it further supports your need to change and end the relationship. I found out my ex was on 3 different dating websites as a 40 year old man looking for anything while were...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-12-2019, 02:22 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,710
Posted By rhender
High Conflict Step Parent

My ex got in a new relationship a couple of years ago and it has been high conflict ever since - we have joint 50/50. The new step mom is demanding all contact go through her. When I disagreed, she...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-22-2019, 10:34 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 996
Posted By rhender
One more question... our agreement says we will...

One more question... our agreement says we will jointly make decisions about day care, camps, schooling, etc. It also says that if one parent cannot get them to an activity, the other will be given...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-22-2019, 09:50 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 996
Posted By rhender
Kids Schedule

My ex wants to change the kids schedule again. Our agreement says I get them 4 days a week and he gets them 3. He argued after it was signed, so we now do 50/50. Now he is in a relationship with a...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-31-2019, 03:41 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,647
Posted By rhender
Separation Agreement and Child Support

My ex and I entered into a separation agreement 7 years ago with joint custody of our 2 children. The child support was not standard it said that I would put $2400 into RESP and $720 would be spent...
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