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Forum: Financial Issues Today, 09:42 AM
Replies: 12
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Posted By rockscan
As a child of an ugly divorce I can safely say...

As a child of an ugly divorce I can safely say that growing up helped me learn what really happened. Being abused by a parent is the worst because of the trust involved.

You are doing a good thing...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 12:07 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 685
Posted By rockscan
You mean the debt you are incurring by being...

You mean the debt you are incurring by being unreasonable? Why should he pay that for you again?
Forum: Financial Issues 10-18-2021, 06:19 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 225
Posted By rockscan
No it was sympathy for the kids. They have one...

No it was sympathy for the kids. They have one parent trying their best and the other parent not functioning. Kids in these situations have to deal with an a-hole for a mother.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-18-2021, 08:58 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 225
Posted By rockscan
The reasonable consent is for things like sports....

The reasonable consent is for things like sports. School is automatic without consent. Hopefully your kids realize their mother is barely functioning and they will need to carry a heavier load.

I...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2021, 08:25 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 225
Posted By rockscan
I dont know how loans work outside of Ontario. If...

I dont know how loans work outside of Ontario. If your agreement says nothing about school then you could tell kid they pay 1/3. A new order would help set what is paid so you dont have to pay her...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2021, 03:38 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 225
Posted By rockscan
Kids are responsible for 1/3 and that is after...

Kids are responsible for 1/3 and that is after grants and awards.

You could go back to court to have support set. She does have to pay support for the two who live with you but if she isnt...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2021, 03:08 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 225
Posted By rockscan
Technically you erred years ago when you didnt...

Technically you erred years ago when you didnt have an income imputed to her but at this point that ship has sailed. What is she going to do when this kid goes to school? Welfare?

Because you are...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2021, 11:42 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 685
Posted By rockscan
Your kids are going to have differing levels of...

Your kids are going to have differing levels of lifestyle in both houses. Would you be open to sharing more with your ex if you were to marry someone who makes more money than him? If you were so...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2021, 11:39 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 685
Posted By rockscan
Youre only entitled to the increases when you...

Youre only entitled to the increases when you were married. Plus he has been paying you for what must be five years by now. If you had finalized the paperwork five years ago the support would likely...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-15-2021, 12:42 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 787
Posted By rockscan
And heres where you lose sympathy. My mom stayed...

And heres where you lose sympathy. My mom stayed home because my dad was a traveling salesman. Someone had to be there for us until a certain age. As a result, she lost about 15 years in the...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2021, 08:34 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 685
Posted By rockscan
You are getting divorced. You are no longer...

You are getting divorced. You are no longer entitled to that lifestyle or his income. Your friends are not lawyers. Get it through your head.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2021, 01:58 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 787
Posted By rockscan
You had a rule of 65 element to your case and...

You had a rule of 65 element to your case and she was approaching retirement which made it difficult. In a 25 year marriage where the ex doesnt work (and probably didnt work when the kids were...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2021, 01:55 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 261
Posted By rockscan
When my husbands lawyer found out his ex was...

When my husbands lawyer found out his ex was self repped he rubbed his head and sighed. Said it was going to be difficult to reach an agreement and it was. Even with a judge and DRO telling the ex...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2021, 12:46 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 787
Posted By rockscan
Might have been in reference to your case. There...

Might have been in reference to your case. There are a number of factors that result in spousal support and your case may have had a few. Including length of marriage, income of each party,...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-13-2021, 09:18 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 685
Posted By rockscan
Shes not. She is a real person who does not get...

Shes not. She is a real person who does not get it.

One of her earlier threads indicated she had friends telling her she was entitled to more. Some people just dont get it which is why many...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-13-2021, 08:07 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 685
Posted By rockscan
I have. But I have also read all of this previous...

I have. But I have also read all of this previous posters threads and her problem is not her lawyer. She freely admits she doesnt believe her lawyer and wants a lifestyle of weekly beauty...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 08:21 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 685
Posted By rockscan
She has a guide, its her lawyer. Considering she...

She has a guide, its her lawyer. Considering she has spent $75,000 and still refuses to provide financial disclosure, a guide isnt going to do anything.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 08:11 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 787
Posted By rockscan
If he quits as a way to argue entitlement then...

If he quits as a way to argue entitlement then yes he is underemployed.


Again, not how it works. Not every spouse is entitled to spousal and her earning more is not a golden ticket.


A judge...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 06:25 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 685
Posted By rockscan
No she needs to pull her head out of her ass and...

No she needs to pull her head out of her ass and stop making bone head decisions like withholding financial disclosure.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 06:20 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 787
Posted By rockscan
Possibility of Spousal Support

Spousal isnt a given just because she makes more. He has to prove entitlement to spousal. Its not automatic like child support.

Agreement or not, he has to prove he is entitled to spousal and...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 03:04 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 787
Posted By rockscan
I dont know if this is necessarily correct. He...

I dont know if this is necessarily correct. He would have to prove entitlement and refusing to work or having a pattern of quitting jobs may work against him.

As for the termination clauses, he...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 02:23 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 685
Posted By rockscan
I doubt its child support and if you have offset...

I doubt its child support and if you have offset then he is probably basing it off of what you were making since he HAS NO FINANCIAL DISCLOSURE FROM YOU to update it.

So no, if he is paying what...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 09:38 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 685
Posted By rockscan
If there is no order for spousal then yes he can....

If there is no order for spousal then yes he can. He is still paying the various expenses which were covered in his voluntary payments which is something he may be ordered to do. As for spousal, you...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-11-2021, 10:23 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 179
Posted By rockscan
I would still do a dummy return if I were you or...

I would still do a dummy return if I were you or see if there is an online calculation to help. Just because it reduces her taxable income doesnt mean its a credit off the cost. We ran into this...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-10-2021, 07:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 179
Posted By rockscan
Yes you can insist on having it separate. Most of...

Yes you can insist on having it separate. Most of the times the amount is included is when a payor refuses to pay so it is added to ensure payment.

A simple no will suffice. This way if she wants...
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