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Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 11:56 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 678
Posted By trueblue22
I would be fine just taking the increase in extra...

I would be fine just taking the increase in extra child support since he's trying to cut off my spousal but he's arguing his new income for child support would be a transfer of wealth to me since the...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2021, 11:01 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 678
Posted By trueblue22
It is important my kids are able to enjoy a...

It is important my kids are able to enjoy a similar lifestyle with me just like they have with their dad. My children are old enough to appreciate vacations and nice things.

I am slowly...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2021, 10:59 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 678
Posted By trueblue22
I believe I'm entitled to compensatory support....

I believe I'm entitled to compensatory support. He was just starting out when we married and the income increases he has had is based on the same job with more experience. Why would I not be entitled?
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2021, 08:26 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 678
Posted By trueblue22
I had 2 kids with my ex. We lived a good...

I had 2 kids with my ex. We lived a good lifestyle. Standard of living is important to me and my kids. My friends told me I'm entitled to more since there is such an income disparity. My ex doesn't...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 12:42 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 678
Posted By trueblue22
Since there is no agreement it's considered child...

Since there is no agreement it's considered child support (which is less than what I should be getting based on dummy calculations). He would be stopping the child support cash payments which would...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 09:21 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 678
Posted By trueblue22
Stopping support payments

Hi everyone,

Can my ex stop paying me the voluntary amounts of support he is currently paying? My ex had his lawyer inform me he will only pay for expenses that still have his name on it but will...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2021, 10:17 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 552
Posted By trueblue22
I am already in debt from all the legal letters...

I am already in debt from all the legal letters and back and forth with the lawyers. I've spent nearly 75k already and we aren't in court yet. I will ask for an advance on my equalization to fight...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2021, 09:33 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 337
Posted By trueblue22
The childen are in school. I'm sure I'll be able...

The childen are in school. I'm sure I'll be able to delay it until December this year or June next year. He also wants to renovate it but I'm no moving out to let him make more money after...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2021, 09:31 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 337
Posted By trueblue22
If we go to court it won't be just for the sale...

If we go to court it won't be just for the sale of the house. He will probably try to get everything going at the same time. I don't think he'll get an emergency or urgent motion.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2021, 09:29 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 552
Posted By trueblue22
We have different parenting styles. He's more...

We have different parenting styles. He's more strict I'm less so. We also have different lifestyles but I fully expect retroactive child and spousal support to come my way.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2021, 12:58 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 552
Posted By trueblue22
Why wouldn't a judge give me mothers day or my...

Why wouldn't a judge give me mothers day or my birthday? I thought that was standard.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2021, 12:57 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 552
Posted By trueblue22
It's my house too.

It's my house too.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2021, 12:53 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 337
Posted By trueblue22
What would make it considered urgent?

What would make it considered urgent?
Forum: Financial Issues 09-28-2021, 09:21 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 552
Posted By trueblue22
He and I don't agree on the schedule and we...

He and I don't agree on the schedule and we parent differently. A judge making a standard order is better for me because it'll probably be 2-3-3 schedule.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-28-2021, 09:19 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 337
Posted By trueblue22
Court date

My ex is planning on taking me to court to force the sale of the house. How backlogged is the courts.I know I will lose this one but just want to know how long I have before we appear before a judge.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-15-2021, 07:34 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 552
Posted By trueblue22
Mortgage with no separation agreement

My ex keeps trying to get me to sign an separation agreement so he can can get a new mortgage with his new partner. I'm not ready yet.

Can he get a mortgage without one?
Forum: Financial Issues 07-26-2021, 09:48 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,941
Posted By trueblue22
He is trying to scam me. If we were together I...

He is trying to scam me. If we were together I would be taking several 10k to 15k vacations a year instead I can barely afford to go to Mexico once a year. My standard of living has severely...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-26-2021, 01:03 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,941
Posted By trueblue22
We haven't been to court yet. We have been...

We haven't been to court yet. We have been negotiating back and forth using lawyers and are now considering mediation. This is 130k over 5 years while my ex has been paying all my expenses and I'm...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-25-2021, 10:24 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,941
Posted By trueblue22
What I am owed by my ex if he wasn't trying to...

What I am owed by my ex if he wasn't trying to scam me should be around 850 to 1.1 million (possibly more since MH value has gone up). He's trying to pretend I get only 300 to 450k. I have borrowed...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-24-2021, 09:28 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,941
Posted By trueblue22
I am borrowing money from my family and will pay...

I am borrowing money from my family and will pay them back once I get my equalization payment.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-19-2021, 09:56 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 268
Posted By trueblue22
My ex and I disagree on our separation date so...

My ex and I disagree on our separation date so it's on the list of things we may need to go to court for.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2021, 05:14 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,941
Posted By trueblue22
My lawyer said I can request an extension for...

My lawyer said I can request an extension for this. My ex knows he owes me money he can't just take everything.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2021, 02:10 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,941
Posted By trueblue22
I'm basing it on both. His previous income and...

I'm basing it on both. His previous income and the increase for a range.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2021, 02:09 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,941
Posted By trueblue22
We are going to spend our lives together. If he's...

We are going to spend our lives together. If he's in a good financial position then I'll be in a good financial position.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2021, 02:06 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,941
Posted By trueblue22
I am trying to keep my business afloat so I can...

I am trying to keep my business afloat so I can make enough money and qualify for mortgage that isn't a 1 bedroom condo.

I clothe and feed the kids too.
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