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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 08:12 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 47
Posted By rockscan
You can file it but if she refuses to provide it...

You can file it but if she refuses to provide it wonít look good on her.

In your affidavit outline that she hasnt provided any up to date information showing full time enrollment.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 07:41 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 47
Posted By rockscan
You are filing to have support stopped. You can...

You are filing to have support stopped. You can provide all of that but the other side needs to prove she is still entitled to support.

Have they provided proof of enrollment? Transcripts showing...
Forum: Financial Issues Today, 01:37 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 96
Posted By rockscan
Not hostile, just honest. If you think thats bad,...

Not hostile, just honest. If you think thats bad, good thing you donít hear what I say to my husband.

Everyone has a story from their divorce and reasons why the other person should shut up and...
Forum: Financial Issues Today, 12:52 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 96
Posted By rockscan
This is a first offer. My husbands ex demanded...

This is a first offer. My husbands ex demanded $65,000 in expenses plus ongoing cs in her first offer. He owed her $5,000 and partial table. Offers are meant to start the negotiating. He can look at...
Forum: Financial Issues Today, 12:20 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 96
Posted By rockscan
Getting $200,000 up front and paying jt out...

Getting $200,000 up front and paying jt out monthly for the next 30 years is better? Has his lawyer told him what he can expect for a monthly payment and the length of time?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 11:41 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 371
Posted By rockscan
Janus is actually right. Your wife should not be...

Janus is actually right. Your wife should not be involved at all from a front end perspective. She can support you, talk to you, work with you but should have zero communication with your ex.
Forum: Financial Issues Today, 11:40 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 96
Posted By rockscan
Well look at what he would have to pay her. ...

Well look at what he would have to pay her.

1. Half the value of the house and his pension.
2. Her share of his cpp credits for the years she didnít work.
3. Monthly spousal support.

The...
Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 07:44 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 424
Posted By rockscan
Let her not show up, better for you! Search...

Let her not show up, better for you!

Search other methods of serving in the forum. Someone else had this problem.
Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 07:22 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 424
Posted By rockscan
No I was saying can you find her through...

No I was saying can you find her through thatóidentifying info or workplaces.
Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 05:01 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 424
Posted By rockscan
Friends? Family? Social media? Emergency contacts?

Friends? Family? Social media? Emergency contacts?
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 04:55 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 300
Posted By rockscan
Iím not saying senior homes or retirement...

Iím not saying senior homes or retirement communities, Iím saying affordable housing like townhomes, condos and apartments. I live in a higher priced community that has now approved a number of...
Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 04:28 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 424
Posted By rockscan
How do you not know where she lives? How do you...

How do you not know where she lives? How do you trade kids?
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 02:52 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 340
Posted By rockscan
This isnt alienation. She is INFLUENCING the...

This isnt alienation. She is INFLUENCING the children and INTERFERING in the relationship but has not alienated them. You still see them. You still have parenting time with them. You can still...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 02:29 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 300
Posted By rockscan
You may want to get a lawyer to give you advice....

You may want to get a lawyer to give you advice. Your ex can say a lot of stuff to get you to do what he wants, it doesnt mean its legal. Based on your age and length of marriage you are more than...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 02:22 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 340
Posted By rockscan
WorkingDad on here won significant costs in his...

WorkingDad on here won significant costs in his matter. He was self repped through almost all of it if not all of it if I recall.
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 12:53 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 160
Posted By rockscan
Your income for 2019 wonít be impacted by a...

Your income for 2019 wonít be impacted by a firing in the last two weeks. It will impact your 2020 income though.

Getting fired wasnít something you could have foreseen in your previous matter...
Forum: Divorce Support Yesterday, 12:50 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 372
Posted By rockscan
The day after we went through all the old files...

The day after we went through all the old files and pulled items for purging her lawyer sent a nasty letter accusing him of not following the new order. He was pretty angry for a few hours. We hope...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 12:28 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 98
Posted By rockscan
Its form 15a if in Ontario. Its pretty straight...

Its form 15a if in Ontario. Its pretty straight forward to fill out. If she knows his income has gone up and when it went up then she can estimate the amounts and put those in.

Her affidavit will...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 11:55 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 340
Posted By rockscan
My husband said the same thing. The third item in...

My husband said the same thing. The third item in their agreement is to not speak poorly to the children or within hearing distance. She broke that even before they signed the agreement and even had...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 11:08 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 340
Posted By rockscan
From what I understand, most judges will not...

From what I understand, most judges will not force a teen (over 14) to spend time with one parent or change custody for them.

However...they will attempt to ďencourageĒ the other parent to adhere...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 10:50 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 300
Posted By rockscan
Yet you canít afford it or get someone to cosign...

Yet you canít afford it or get someone to cosign it. You are living outside your means and expecting your ex to pay for it. Wise up, you can either sell it and move on or hold on and pay his legal...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 10:49 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 98
Posted By rockscan
Tell her to file a motion to change and in it...

Tell her to file a motion to change and in it attach all the emails she asked him to update. She can also go back to the date she started asking. She doesnt need a lawyer, can file and appear on her...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 08:13 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 300
Posted By rockscan
The short answer is no. You live there and he...

The short answer is no. You live there and he pays you spousal support to cover your expenses. You choose to live in a location that has more expenses than your income. A judge is more likely to...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2020, 07:23 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 160
Posted By rockscan
If you think you will be working when you are...

If you think you will be working when you are done then I would leave it as is even though it is eating your savings. The reason being that when you update after your taxes are filed next year, your...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2020, 06:16 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 160
Posted By rockscan
You could file to have your child support reduced...

You could file to have your child support reduced but you would need to prove you are looking for work. Have you tried speaking to your ex?

Other questions of note: are you with an enforcement...
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