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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-09-2010, 06:20 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,731
Posted By independentgal
If you do nothing, it will get issued and entered...

If you do nothing, it will get issued and entered exactly as the other lawyer has prepared it.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2010, 04:31 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,698
Posted By independentgal
All charges, liens, writs have to be paid before...

All charges, liens, writs have to be paid before clear title can be given.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2010, 04:27 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,898
Posted By independentgal
As long as you are sure it is a straight...

As long as you are sure it is a straight mathematical addition mistake, and there can be no other interpretation, then bring a motion to get it fixed.

If you bring a motion, the other party has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2010, 02:46 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,794
Posted By independentgal
The problem with going to argue for an...

The problem with going to argue for an adjournment is he can't because of his work obligations on that day, that is the whole reason he needs an adjournment.



I too thought she wanted financial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2010, 07:58 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,794
Posted By independentgal
You probably shouldn't have sent it in. I tried...

You probably shouldn't have sent it in. I tried to adjourn a motion on consent by calling ex's lawyer. The ex's lawyer refused unless I did a,b,c,d,e,f,g,h,i,j,k,l, and paid him $5000.00. I sent...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2010, 07:49 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 823
Posted By independentgal
Solves nothing. Makes them tons of money. Tell...

Solves nothing. Makes them tons of money. Tell your lawyer that you aren't playing that game. My ex's lawyer sometimes sent three(once 4 letters) in ONE DAY! It got insane. I still have PTSD...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2010, 09:04 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,183
Posted By independentgal
Are one of you making claim for undue hardship? ...

Are one of you making claim for undue hardship? Or are you requesting reduction in CS?

I would provide it if you have it. It will only help your case, not hinder it in my opinion. I know it is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2010, 08:52 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,794
Posted By independentgal
In the 14C form there is a spot that you...

In the 14C form there is a spot that you indicates you wanted an adjournment, it lets the judge know if(that) you tried to adjourn it prior to filing the doc.

You need to call the lawyer for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2010, 04:45 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,790
Posted By independentgal
You need to shut her down if she starts on you...

You need to shut her down if she starts on you again about it. Totally covered by CS. Even soccer, baseball teams, equipment, swim lessons etc. are covered too if she tries that as well.

"Stop...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-21-2010, 03:32 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,875
Posted By independentgal
I wouldn't think travel costs to visit home are ...

I wouldn't think travel costs to visit home are part of education costs to be paid by the CS payor.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2010, 03:28 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 857
Posted By independentgal
Exes who have a hard time getting over their...

Exes who have a hard time getting over their spouse are the only ones who would ever ask for such a clause(assuming friend is not convicted of violent crime etc).

It is totally wrong for a...
Forum: Introductions 01-20-2010, 01:26 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 3,161
Posted By independentgal
The last time the person who posted this topic...

The last time the person who posted this topic logged on here was four years ago.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2010, 06:09 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,646
Posted By independentgal
No, it is not the right of parents to be able to...

No, it is not the right of parents to be able to communicate as much as they want(daily) with their children. If you allow a clause like that in your order, you are asking for trouble.



Dont...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2010, 03:16 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,500
Posted By independentgal
That really sucks. Too bad she can't agree...

That really sucks.

Too bad she can't agree to drive halfway. The judge in my case wouldn't agree to do the drop off in my town(do not want ex at my house) he changed it so I have to drive 10-15...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2010, 11:12 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 6,516
Posted By independentgal
I think you just need to be consistent in...

I think you just need to be consistent in refusing to acknowledge phone calls from her. Period. It will get worse before she comes to terms with this new method of communicating. She sounds like...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-10-2010, 05:49 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 6,516
Posted By independentgal
I mean that if she calls because it is an...

I mean that if she calls because it is an emergency, she would leave a voicemail presumably. He can always call her back then for more details.

For me an emergency would be a life threatening...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-09-2010, 07:31 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 6,516
Posted By independentgal
Our judge insisted on non-verbal communication...

Our judge insisted on non-verbal communication due to the high conflict situation. He could see our phone calls, voice mails, conversations etc. were doing nothing to help our son's situation with...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-08-2010, 12:07 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,503
Posted By independentgal
She has no right to dictate how/when you pay her....

She has no right to dictate how/when you pay her.

Send 6 months or 12 months of cheques to her by Express Post(signature required). Don't tell her in advance you are doing it.

Take photocopies...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-08-2010, 07:40 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,694
Posted By independentgal
NB, I just meant, call the CAS or the catholic...

NB, I just meant, call the CAS or the catholic childrens aid society, call the police, call a mental health centre that is run by the govt and ask if counseling/financial counseling is offered on a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-07-2010, 01:32 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,694
Posted By independentgal
Why does she expect everyone to pay her way in...

Why does she expect everyone to pay her way in life? What is so bad about working? Heck, she can even shovel sidewalks for companies for good money(maybe even under the table if that is what she is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-26-2009, 04:52 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,105
Posted By independentgal
If they are just appearing for that day on your...

If they are just appearing for that day on your behalf, and possibly giving advice, preparing documents for you etc. , they are acting as agent for you and as such, you cannot file a notice of change...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-25-2009, 02:15 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 925
Posted By independentgal
Well, theoretically the losing party is to pay...

Well, theoretically the losing party is to pay costs at a motion but in actuality, it doesn't always happen. Frequently the "success" is divided in the judge's eyes so each party is to bear their own...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-25-2009, 09:10 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 925
Posted By independentgal
I sympathize with your situation. I just logged...

I sympathize with your situation. I just logged in here today out of frustration because of the same thing. My partner's children are dictating access. We just got a text that they aren't coming...
Forum: General Chat 12-24-2009, 08:44 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 872
Posted By independentgal
Merry Christmas! :)

Merry Christmas! :)
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-24-2009, 08:44 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,600
Posted By independentgal
You are dealing with things as a reasonable...

You are dealing with things as a reasonable person would, but you have made the mistake of assuming she would be just as reasonable.


By communicating with her like normal people would...
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