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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-12-2020, 09:00 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 264
Posted By Berner_Faith
Possibly but itís also possible he misread the...

Possibly but itís also possible he misread the text... those messages were just sent to him on the 10th and doesnít mention wanting to put the child in daycare so I think OP needs to clarify if this...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-12-2020, 08:40 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 264
Posted By Berner_Faith
But thatís not what those messages say... her #2...

But thatís not what those messages say... her #2 question asks for him to pay half of private school because itís half the price of daycare... so unless there were more messages exchanged that he...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-11-2020, 09:02 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 264
Posted By Berner_Faith
I must be reading that wrong or there is more to...

I must be reading that wrong or there is more to this... sheís asking you to pay half for private school since itís less than daycare... she doesnít want public school due to class size and says...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-24-2020, 06:54 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 311
Posted By Berner_Faith
I get what youíre saying but all mom has to say...

I get what youíre saying but all mom has to say is sheíll sleep on the couch now. I had a cousin that was heavily involved with CAS (and he never should have been allowed to keep his girls but thatís...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-24-2020, 05:58 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 311
Posted By Berner_Faith
The argument will be Momís sleeping in the...

The argument will be Momís sleeping in the childís room, not the other way around.

At 13 it wonít be too much longer before he wants his space. Itís going to become a non issue very soon

...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2020, 06:46 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 681
Posted By Berner_Faith
Maybe not sexist but what about a spouse that has...

Maybe not sexist but what about a spouse that has to defend against a SS claim when the other isnít entitled to support? Or is requested more support than they should be getting? Those fees arenít...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2020, 06:36 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 512
Posted By Berner_Faith
Itís not really that hard of math... the costs...

Itís not really that hard of math... the costs are split AFTER insurance deductions... not before. NET costs are split... not gross.

If an appointment in $300 and insurance pays 1/3, then itís...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-06-2020, 04:27 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 176
Posted By Berner_Faith
What is ďlasts long enoughĒ... I doubt she wants...

What is ďlasts long enoughĒ... I doubt she wants to take this to court as theyíve never been but at what point does a change in CS happen? I hear all the time the CS should follow the children. By...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-05-2020, 10:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 176
Posted By Berner_Faith
Re-Calculating CS

Asking for my neighbour...

Divorced three years, separated five.

Mom has had majorly custody
Dad EOW
They only live 15 minutes apart, but separate towns

Before Covid Dad paid full CS,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-14-2020, 01:35 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 4,922
Posted By Berner_Faith
Thatís how lawyers should work... I have a friend...

Thatís how lawyers should work... I have a friend going through divorce... heís already spent $10k and basically got no where... heís scrapping by while paying for the mat home his ex is living in...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-13-2020, 02:32 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 4,922
Posted By Berner_Faith
At home child care is still allowed for those who...

At home child care is still allowed for those who care for under 6 children... going to their grandparents for child care would be no different than going to a home daycare provider. Yes thousands...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2020, 03:35 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 598
Posted By Berner_Faith
My husband was paying full CS... he lost his job...

My husband was paying full CS... he lost his job and the kids have been coming to us on a week about basis. What him and his ex agreed on was that he would pay CS offset based on their 2019 tax...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-09-2020, 11:36 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 672
Posted By Berner_Faith
Why not just ignore? Every time you contact the...

Why not just ignore? Every time you contact the police he knows heís getting a reaction out of you... it doesnít seem there are any real threats, heís just being a huge jerk. Let him email and simply...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2020, 04:12 PM
Replies: 56
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Views: 3,113
Posted By Berner_Faith
Sorry to say but Rockscan is right... you signed...

Sorry to say but Rockscan is right... you signed away your rights as an equal parent when you agreed to only 15% parenting time. My husband is in the same situation. Driving your kids to activities...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-04-2020, 12:44 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 259
Posted By Berner_Faith
If one spouse played no active role in the...

If one spouse played no active role in the business and didnít give up their career for said business I donít see anything happening other than the value being split. If the unskilled spouse gave up...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-02-2020, 07:10 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 376
Posted By Berner_Faith
Iíd say respondent... when a judge is reading...

Iíd say respondent... when a judge is reading they wonít want to be reading ďIĒ


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Forum: General Chat 01-30-2020, 12:03 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,219
Posted By Berner_Faith
Good to know, and you always round up ...

Good to know, and you always round up


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Forum: General Chat 01-30-2020, 10:02 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,219
Posted By Berner_Faith
Most lawyers bill in 10-15 min intervals... stop...

Most lawyers bill in 10-15 min intervals... stop sending emails if they arenít absolutely necessary. Usually when people complain about over billing itís because they are sending a dozen emails and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 10:30 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 534
Posted By Berner_Faith
Thanks Janus... Iíve passed this along. I agree...

Thanks Janus... Iíve passed this along. I agree he should be able to move back in because she doesnít have exclusive possession but with being out 5 months... how would a judge see this?


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 09:27 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 534
Posted By Berner_Faith
His lawyer stated because they have been living...

His lawyer stated because they have been living separate and apart for 5 months he canít move back in. They both own the house yes, but he moved out and took up residence elsewhere for the past 5...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 06:57 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 534
Posted By Berner_Faith
Well his lawyer got back to him this morning and...

Well his lawyer got back to him this morning and told him no he canít move back in as heís been out for 4-5 months... thatís actually what I figured. Just because itís the mat home doesnít give him...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-28-2020, 08:39 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 368
Posted By Berner_Faith
What would you do if your ex wasnít around? As a...

What would you do if your ex wasnít around? As a sole custody parent you are responsible for the child. Sometimes that means changing jobs, taking a pay cut and arranging your life around your child....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2020, 08:28 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 534
Posted By Berner_Faith
Moving back into house?

Asking for a friend of a friend... and pretty sure I know the answer but...

Husband moved out of house in September as wife wanted some time to think about separating... itís been decided the...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2020, 08:21 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 826
Posted By Berner_Faith
It is the law and neither parent is able to sign...

It is the law and neither parent is able to sign away CS... so if this is a way to get an agreement signed and thatís the only way they will sign... well sign it with that clause and when it comes...
Forum: General Chat 01-28-2020, 07:59 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,065
Posted By Berner_Faith
If youíre making $1000 a day Iím sure you can...

If youíre making $1000 a day Iím sure you can afford to miss a day or two in order to get what you need. Iíd start with a motion for her to either sign the applications or an order stating you donít...
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