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Forum: Financial Issues 02-23-2020, 11:13 AM
Replies: 10
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Posted By moremiles
So true. Thankyou and I understand your advice....

So true.
Thankyou and I understand your advice.
Valadation strengthens my healing process.
Truly grateful for support groups. Information world a true gift. 🙏☮eventually.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-22-2020, 08:08 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 688
Posted By moremiles
Yes I believe that to be true that he will always...

Yes I believe that to be true that he will always be this way. I did not understand narcissism before and being an empath was a perfect target for him. I needed to learn this lesson in life and...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-22-2020, 07:52 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 688
Posted By moremiles
Thank you for your understanding as I'm learning...

Thank you for your understanding as I'm learning all of this. If my ex figures me out by reading my post I've only spoken the truth and he is a master of justifying anything.
The specialist that...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-22-2020, 04:01 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 688
Posted By moremiles
I was worried my ex might be reading this so I...

I was worried my ex might be reading this so I tried to be discreet now I feel silly. I am learning as I go along.
I am now seriously considering selling. When I asked ex before to contribute to...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-22-2020, 12:41 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 688
Posted By moremiles
Who is responsible for home repairs

A friend asked
Is my friend's ex responsible for home fixtures to pass inspection so home can be sold. What if my friend wants to take over the mortgage but cant til these house problems are...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 06:03 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 928
Posted By moremiles
Thank you for all the input. I'm learning alot...

Thank you for all the input. I'm learning alot here and taking all comments into consideration. My cosigner knows the value of living here and wants to see me stay.
A decision of what direction I...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 03:36 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 928
Posted By moremiles
Thank you for response. I have been looking at...

Thank you for response. I have been looking at living else where especially with the senior community. Waiting list are very long and I've added my name to. Iam grateful for excellent health and...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 12:33 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 928
Posted By moremiles
The reshingling of roof evident of dire repair...

The reshingling of roof evident of dire repair long before ex left, i have pictures... People would say when are you going to fix your roof? my ex tried to convince me it was fine. Same for crawl...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 08:41 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 928
Posted By moremiles
The reason I am so tied to my home is it's unique...

The reason I am so tied to my home is it's unique special location. I live next to a beautiful lake. I utilize for kayaking, swimming and enjoy outstanding beauty of sunsets etc. My back yard is up...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 07:52 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 928
Posted By moremiles
Yes I did sign for refinancing mortgage. My...

Yes I did sign for refinancing mortgage. My husband had only computer in home and I trusted that he was taking care of things. I did try and use the computer but everytime I did the computer would...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 06:22 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 928
Posted By moremiles
Property taxes are included in mortgage and I...

Property taxes are included in mortgage and I have been paying those as well as utilities for 3.5 years. I am receiving $1000. in support from ex and work part-time at several jobs to make up the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 04:13 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 928
Posted By moremiles
Would it be possible for my ex's name to remain...

Would it be possible for my ex's name to remain on the mortgage but be removed from the deed using a quit claim? My main focus is on remaining in my home since I have managed to carry it for 3.5...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 10:02 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 928
Posted By moremiles
Question: Is ex who lives outside the matrimonial...

Question: Is ex who lives outside the matrimonial home responsible for major repairs needed in order to sell the home?
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2020, 02:53 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 928
Posted By moremiles
Staying in the Home

A friend asks:
Married 23 years. I became stay at home Mom and did several part-time jobs to contribute financially. He was 62 and I am 60 at the time of separation 3.5 years ago. My husband took...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-19-2018, 04:17 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 748
Posted By moremiles
Read this article today online.. "if after...

Read this article today online..
"if after separation or divorce you have been ordered by a court to pay spousal support to your Ex, the fact that you have come into an inheritance may be a factor...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-25-2014, 12:10 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,321
Posted By moremiles
I picked up a form T2220 E from my bank that...

I picked up a form T2220 E from my bank that essentially enables the transfer of funds from my RSP to her RSP. She has to agree to this of course & then that would settle all financial affairs...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-23-2014, 07:50 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,321
Posted By moremiles
Thanks to all of you for your input. I am going...

Thanks to all of you for your input. I am going to the bank tomorrow & will seek advice there. Right now I am inclined to agree with dinkyface & offer to put $5000 in an RSP for her. If that can't be...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-23-2014, 01:24 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,321
Posted By moremiles
Well this 'company' is paying for a lot of people...

Well this 'company' is paying for a lot of people to answer the phone & tell you they can't help you. I will post tomorrow & let you know what the bank has to say.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-23-2014, 12:36 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,321
Posted By moremiles
"Your pension administrator may be willing to do...

"Your pension administrator may be willing to do all these calculations at little to no cost to you."
Ha! You think they would? Not a chance. I just spoke to four people there & they sound like a...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-23-2014, 11:16 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,321
Posted By moremiles
She has her own reasons for wanting a divorce....

She has her own reasons for wanting a divorce. She is planning on getting married again. Hopefully I can get this sorted in the next few weeks. In any case I won't be retiring until after the divorce.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-22-2014, 10:30 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,321
Posted By moremiles
It is most definitely my fault. I could say that...

It is most definitely my fault. I could say that I didn't understand but it was up to me to find out. The reason I picked 5% as the annual interest is I believe that is what the teachers use as a...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-22-2014, 05:46 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,321
Posted By moremiles
Also we will be divorced prior to my retirement....

Also we will be divorced prior to my retirement. We are just in the process of starting that, but after 10 years there is no rush. It is just that I would like the divorce final before I retire.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-22-2014, 05:15 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,321
Posted By moremiles
Thanks very much but I still find that open to...

Thanks very much but I still find that open to some interpretation. On the one hand she is only entitled to the $2450 that would have been hers in 2003. However there would have been growth of that...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-22-2014, 03:49 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,321
Posted By moremiles
Question on DC Pension Split

I have a mediation agreement with my ex that stipulates we split my pensions for the time we were married. The one Defined Benefit plan was no problem, that is taken care of. Unfortunately the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2010, 11:03 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,008
Posted By moremiles
@Anarx Best answer, no question!

@Anarx
Best answer, no question!
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