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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2021, 02:46 PM
Replies: 6
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Posted By helenj
Before making any final decision in their area of...

Before making any final decision in their area of decision-making each party shall inform the other of their intended decision. They shall consult with one another in regards to any and all major...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-09-2021, 04:48 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 338
Posted By helenj
What I usually do is put names in quotes, like...

What I usually do is put names in quotes, like this

"John doe" or "Alex baldwin"

It will force the search engine to match the exact phrase in the quotations.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-23-2021, 02:28 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 587
Posted By helenj
Yes, this forum is quite amazing. I am a member...

Yes, this forum is quite amazing. I am a member of several other websites, and there is nothing as unique as this site, in-part thanks to members like yourself.

I will get started on this case...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-22-2021, 10:42 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 587
Posted By helenj
Thank you for citing the case! I'm going to look...

Thank you for citing the case! I'm going to look it up and send her the case. I've had some trust issues with this lawyer on several things and am considering a change of counsel, although my trial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-22-2021, 08:02 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 587
Posted By helenj
Hi all and thanks for response. This was my...

Hi all and thanks for response. This was my lawyer's response:

Joint decision making I think will be difficult to obtain at trial, but not impossible. One of the requirements for true joint...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2021, 08:47 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 587
Posted By helenj
Thank you - just asked my lawyer for advice. ...

Thank you - just asked my lawyer for advice.

Historically, I was equally involved in my children's lives until my ex walked into the police station over 2 years ago.

It just seems crazy I can...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2021, 09:27 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 587
Posted By helenj
Sole vs. Joint Custody?

Hi all,

-False domestic violence criminal charges have been stayed (withdrawn) after 2 years due to a technicality. We did go to trial but due to an unforeseen circumstance (not due to her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-13-2021, 01:02 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 733
Posted By helenj
Hi, I told my family lawyer I do NOT want to...

Hi,

I told my family lawyer I do NOT want to do a motion as I don't have $10k lying around to pay for a motion. I am really looking for a resolution and I am saying just let's agree to every...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-12-2021, 02:17 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 733
Posted By helenj
While you may be very knowledgeable, there are a...

While you may be very knowledgeable, there are a few knots and bolts you're not seeing as to how the criminal justice system works. I can tell you that because I've lived it for several years years....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2021, 11:14 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 733
Posted By helenj
lol...ok there...you know everything....being...

lol...ok there...you know everything....being charged doesn't mean anything. Only if you're found guilty is a person guilty. Even then there are mistakes that happen and they find out 40 years...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2021, 06:49 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 733
Posted By helenj
Yes, there is false allegations of domestic...

Yes, there is false allegations of domestic violence. I am being quoted for around $5000+ for mediation with my lawyer being present.

What's the big push to do mediation BEFORE offer to settle?...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2021, 12:24 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 733
Posted By helenj
I have been assumed guilty until proven innocent...

I have been assumed guilty until proven innocent in family court. Even know they're saying I'm guilty and just because I'm not convicted, it doesn't mean I'm innocent. It's a sad state of affairs....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-10-2021, 07:41 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 733
Posted By helenj
Interesting...so one person says waste of time...

Interesting...so one person says waste of time and the other says it's worth it.

We are high conflict. As mentioned she had me falsely charged and withheld kids from me unreasonably.... trying to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-10-2021, 05:46 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 733
Posted By helenj
Mediation vs. Offer to Settle

Hi all,

I am making an offer to settle for Every Other weekend +50/50 holidays but my lawyers are pushing HARD for mediation BEFORE we make an offer to settle.

Their reasoning is that in case...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-04-2021, 04:52 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 760
Posted By helenj
All, One question: I put the offer...

All,


One question:

I put the offer every other weekend from Friday to Monday morning school drop off (instead of Sunday) and Thursday to Friday morning school drop-off (instead of Thursday...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-03-2021, 02:42 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 760
Posted By helenj
Hello, 1. Going to trial will cost me around...

Hello,
1. Going to trial will cost me around $60-$90k. This is the quote i'm getting. I also do not want to self-represent. I DO want to go to trial and clear my name, but the cost is very...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-02-2021, 06:09 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 760
Posted By helenj
Agreed, however, I have been told that no Judge...

Agreed, however, I have been told that no Judge will grant me 50/50 from what I have now given that it's been over 2 years since I have had supervised access.

I can make an offer for 50/50...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-01-2021, 05:25 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 760
Posted By helenj
Thank you all for the feedback. Just to make...

Thank you all for the feedback.

Just to make sure, I will be asking for Joint Custody/Shared Decision making. Is this a fair offer?

So I will make an offer for every other weekend + Joint...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-01-2021, 02:33 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 760
Posted By helenj
Thank you all very much. I will make an offer...

Thank you all very much. I will make an offer now then. Please critique my below offer:

I am asking for:

1. Every other weekend + mid-week visit and 50/50 holidays.

2. Right of First...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-30-2021, 10:22 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 760
Posted By helenj
Criminal Charges Stayed - Family Trial Coming Up

Hi all,

The below is the situation I need some advice on:

Background:
-False domestic violence criminal charges have been stayed (withdrawn) after 2 years due to a technicality. We did go to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-18-2021, 04:10 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 552
Posted By helenj
Professional supervision threat

Hi all,

My ex's lawyer has sent 3 e-mails in the span of a month claiming I have been involving our kids in adult conversation and if it continues she will be seeking to re-instate professional...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-27-2021, 07:32 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,455
Posted By helenj
On a lot of topics, scientific research seems to...

On a lot of topics, scientific research seems to line up with liberal or left-wing politics pretty closely. But this isn't always the case, especially when it comes to gender, sexuality, and race....
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-27-2021, 07:24 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,455
Posted By helenj
Few seem able to hear that women can be as violent as men in domestic disputes.

Controversy ensues when science butts heads with liberal ideology: Few seem able to hear that women can be as violent as men in domestic disputes.

...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-27-2021, 06:08 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 289
Posted By helenj
Motion to increase parenting time?

Hi All,

I have been involved in a criminal trial (false accusations) for 2 years that may be coming to an end in next 6 months. The accusations are against her and not the kids. I was heavily...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2021, 05:31 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 887
Posted By helenj
So my family trial will start about 1.5 months...

So my family trial will start about 1.5 months after my criminal trial will be done.

Me and my ex have not communicated for the past 2.5 years given the charges.

Won't this prejudice me in...
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