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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2022, 03:50 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 147
Posted By Stillbreathing
I have been receiving child support payments...

I have been receiving child support payments through FRO for the nearly a decade. Our court order states the child support payments are to be made on the first day of the month. In all those years...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-14-2022, 11:31 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 141
Posted By Stillbreathing
A 16 and 18 year old vote with their feet and can...

A 16 and 18 year old vote with their feet and can basically live with whichever parent they want. The 18 year old is an adult over which your friend (and the judge) have absolutely no control over...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2022, 09:49 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 214
Posted By Stillbreathing
Unfortunately disclosure is not a one shot deal....

Unfortunately disclosure is not a one shot deal. It’s ongoing. Try being in litigation for 10 years and being asked for 10 years worth of bank statements, credit card statements, etc. This is normal....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2022, 12:18 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 748
Posted By Stillbreathing
A photo of your child’s school and any sports...

A photo of your child’s school and any sports registration that has his/her name and address on it. Your family doctor’s office might be able to print something with his name, address and OHIP...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-11-2022, 09:28 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 748
Posted By Stillbreathing
Agree with standing on the Sidelines. It’s your...

Agree with standing on the Sidelines. It’s your ex’s allegations, therefor his to prove. He has a high bar to climb. Deny the allegations and you could also add that you will be seeking costs ....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2022, 03:23 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 180
Posted By Stillbreathing
You will need to be able to provide convincing...

You will need to be able to provide convincing evidence, preferably from third party sources to have a judge even consider imposing supervised access on your ex when the status quo has been...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-22-2021, 09:06 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 359
Posted By Stillbreathing
The court can strongly advise the other party to...

The court can strongly advise the other party to sign a med/arb agreement but cannot force them to sign it. If they continue to refuse to sign you will need to deal with your issues in court instead
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-22-2021, 12:53 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 272
Posted By Stillbreathing
You could “hire” a lawyer at the last minute,...

You could “hire” a lawyer at the last minute, request an adjournment to the fall sittings then fire your new lawyer just after the May sitting has passed. This will likely work but you may find...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-18-2021, 12:01 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 457
Posted By Stillbreathing
I have to agree with Tayken. In my experience the...

I have to agree with Tayken. In my experience the custody and access report was a colossal waste of time and money! The judge read the report and quoted what the children said according to her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-28-2021, 10:21 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 623
Posted By Stillbreathing
Check your no contact order. It is a legal...

Check your no contact order. It is a legal document. If there is no expiry date then it should still be in effect.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2021, 12:49 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 948
Posted By Stillbreathing
Brampton 33 is spot on. I too have years of...

Brampton 33 is spot on. I too have years of experience with the court system due to an unreasonable, high conflict ex. If your case is high conflict then case conferences and settlement conferences...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-24-2021, 09:46 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 948
Posted By Stillbreathing
The quickest, easiest and most efficient thing to...

The quickest, easiest and most efficient thing to do in response to all the lies is to simply deny all allegations contained in her brief then move on with business. Do not respond to each...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2021, 10:29 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 606
Posted By Stillbreathing
Given your history and the established status quo...

Given your history and the established status quo you may have an uphill battle getting joint custody. Speak to a lawyer they can review your file and give you a realistic assessment of what is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-10-2021, 07:11 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 755
Posted By Stillbreathing
For me personally med/ arbitration has been a...

For me personally med/ arbitration has been a complete waste of time, money and energy. It has not yet resolved any of our issues to date.

I would only suggest it if you get along well with your...
Forum: General Chat 11-09-2021, 03:22 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 859
Posted By Stillbreathing
If it’s solely owned by you and registered in...

If it’s solely owned by you and registered in your name you could write/email/text your ex they have until x date and time to return it or you are reporting it stolen and will be pressing charges...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-08-2021, 06:16 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,952
Posted By Stillbreathing
I agree with Pink Houses. You cannot reduce the...

I agree with Pink Houses. You cannot reduce the amount you pay in child support without a court order. The judge is the only one with that power. If you do it you will find yourself in deep trouble...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-03-2021, 08:26 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 953
Posted By Stillbreathing
In this day and age of computer technology most...

In this day and age of computer technology most health professionals notes are typewritten except for in some hospital charts, therefor it stands to reason the OCL’s notes would be typewritten as...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-02-2021, 07:50 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 413
Posted By Stillbreathing
You could ask for primary custody and your ex...

You could ask for primary custody and your ex have EOW. Stick to this position for awhile then gradually negotiate to 50/50
Forum: Financial Issues 10-29-2021, 10:44 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,952
Posted By Stillbreathing
Just to add another perspective here. Gloves,...

Just to add another perspective here. Gloves, hats, scarves, boots go missing with small children the same as socks disappear in the dryer never to be seen again. This is regardless if the child...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2021, 08:43 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 921
Posted By Stillbreathing
What Rocksan said is not entirely true. My lawyer...

What Rocksan said is not entirely true. My lawyer made it very clear that the court considers a child old enough to make their own decisions at age 18. That being said, the older the teen, the more...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2021, 11:40 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 2,200
Posted By Stillbreathing
What Taken said. A name is something a child is...

What Taken said. A name is something a child is given not who they are. They know who they are. One parent may try to dismiss the other by not acknowledging them or including their name in the...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2021, 10:22 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 998
Posted By Stillbreathing
You asked for advice on how to deal with being...

You asked for advice on how to deal with being blacklisted and were given the sound advice to speak to one of the lawyers who blacklisted you if they will take the time to speak to you. If you don’t...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-23-2021, 11:02 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 660
Posted By Stillbreathing
I find it fascinating and scary at the same time...

I find it fascinating and scary at the same time that the mother managed to find two professionally incompetent and currently practising medical doctors to back up her position. I find it reassuring...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-20-2021, 07:10 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 831
Posted By Stillbreathing
Actually Rocksan isn’t totally correct. Interest...

Actually Rocksan isn’t totally correct. Interest on investments can indeed be counted as income. It depends on the individual situation. In my case my ex has millions invested and lives off the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-18-2021, 12:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 624
Posted By Stillbreathing
Lovingdad, you hit the nail on the head!

Lovingdad, you hit the nail on the head!
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