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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-11-2022, 09:36 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 748
Posted By LMum
You son is allowed to spend time with your...

You son is allowed to spend time with your parents when he's is your care. OCL determined that my adult daughter and her finance were "very important people" to my 12 year old son. He spends every...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-09-2021, 12:18 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 457
Posted By LMum
Trust me its been high conflict, not much normal...

Trust me its been high conflict, not much normal about it. I was actually surprised it wasn't challenged. But I believe it was cause he didn't want to spend the money on extra legal fees, but I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-09-2021, 11:42 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 457
Posted By LMum
My experience with the OCL was a good one. They...

My experience with the OCL was a good one. They captured the issues and really listened to my sons views and wants. We didnt get a lawyer, my son was almost 12 at the time, he got a clinician. Now...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-08-2021, 09:41 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 891
Posted By LMum
Just a comment here from reading this thread... ...

Just a comment here from reading this thread... @rockscan you offer such valid and supportive advice (not just this thread either). @Trix your a great dad !!
Forum: Financial Issues 11-30-2021, 11:03 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,119
Posted By LMum
I've already told him verbally I will let a judge...

I've already told him verbally I will let a judge decide spousal. I 100 percent believe he's not entitled. I have facts and proof to support that. He does not.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-30-2021, 09:15 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,119
Posted By LMum
This is exactly my case, one "normal" job where...

This is exactly my case, one "normal" job where line 150 works.

Quick update..... he did not file his pleading to ask for spousal... YET. And I say yet, as we tried to discuss among ourselves...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-15-2021, 12:43 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,119
Posted By LMum
Spousal income vs Child Support

Quick background. I have most parenting time with the ex EOW. OCL sided in my favour and looks like they wont be challenging it.

My ex verbally told me yesterday he will start to pay support...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-13-2021, 07:15 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,952
Posted By LMum
Trust me I wanted to, and I waited 2 days before...

Trust me I wanted to, and I waited 2 days before I sent it (made him ask twice). If I had done that it would be 4 months of "bad". Its a cycle of shorts periods of good and long periods of bad. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-13-2021, 02:36 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,952
Posted By LMum
My ex is not paying child support, he should be...

My ex is not paying child support, he should be but we haven't settle yet and there's been no order..... getting there.

However, I have been paying for everything for our child. He told me he...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-26-2021, 09:35 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 921
Posted By LMum
I'm confused, just cause she said it was a piece...

I'm confused, just cause she said it was a piece of garbage doesn't mean that it is. Don't judges give value and clout to an OCL report?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2021, 09:22 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 921
Posted By LMum
I agree with Stillbreathing on this. At age 11...

I agree with Stillbreathing on this. At age 11 my son decided he wanted to live with me, without getting into to much details why. Eventually I got served and at the first Case Conference the judge...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2021, 08:54 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 731
Posted By LMum
Narcissist seems to be the new trend lately and...

Narcissist seems to be the new trend lately and judges are most likely sick of hearing that word. I suggest to not use it unless there is a professional diagnosis.

Try using word to describe the...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-21-2021, 11:03 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 389
Posted By LMum
Did you count her drinks as well when you were...

Did you count her drinks as well when you were together?
Forum: Financial Issues 10-21-2021, 07:40 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 389
Posted By LMum
Your math is off. Even if she was buying the...

Your math is off. Even if she was buying the cheapest $10, that 15 bottles a month. With ~ 3 glasses per bottle, that 1.5 glasses a day. Which is not unreasonable. A glass at dinner, maybe an...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-13-2021, 01:47 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,508
Posted By LMum
There was never a sacrifice, he qualified for EI...

There was never a sacrifice, he qualified for EI (in a way that I wont mention here but you get the idea). He never ever quit his job for me or his child. It was selfish on his part but oddly...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-13-2021, 07:33 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,508
Posted By LMum
He stayed home for less then one year, my child...

He stayed home for less then one year, my child is 12 years old now. It was only while he was drawing EI and he didn't sacrifice anything for me, or my career. It was more to save money on daycare...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 09:34 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,508
Posted By LMum
I think your right, I do think its a way to avoid...

I think your right, I do think its a way to avoid paying CS. Still scary.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 09:29 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,508
Posted By LMum
Yes I will do that. I'm actually very happy with...

Yes I will do that. I'm actually very happy with my lawyer, she's good.

On that note, we did have a separation agreement (Jan 2020) that we did on our own with witnesses but no legal advice...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-09-2021, 11:45 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,508
Posted By LMum
They have offered and CS/SS swap. Which we will...

They have offered and CS/SS swap. Which we will say no. Otherwise yes (hopefully) it maybe a threat tactic.




He doesn't hold down jobs well. He mostly quits, but can find another one...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-08-2021, 02:47 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,508
Posted By LMum
Possibility of Spousal Support

My ex's lawyer has asked to amend his pleadings to ask for SS. My income is significantly more then his. He did work throughout our whole 13 year relationship/marriage, except 1 year when he stayed...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-01-2021, 08:56 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 870
Posted By LMum
I agree with Brampton33. Sell the house and move...

I agree with Brampton33. Sell the house and move on. I felt the same way in the beginning of my separation. I loved my house and mourned it more then the marriage. But it did 2 very important...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-21-2021, 10:08 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 582
Posted By LMum
Doesn't matter who pays the mortgage. Its the...

Doesn't matter who pays the mortgage. Its the marital home and is included in property division.
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-04-2021, 05:42 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 965
Posted By LMum
I'm in the middle of almost an exact same...

I'm in the middle of almost an exact same situation. Its been 7 month of legal bills (~20000) so far and we still don't have an resolution. OCL has just finished our interviews with the disclosure...
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