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Forum: Financial Issues 01-26-2015, 10:24 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,837
Posted By Foredeck
Another note, we don't have as many gadgets at...

Another note, we don't have as many gadgets at home as she does. She doesn't have a TV in her room at my place, but has one at her moms.

My only solution to calm this is to pay more then my...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-26-2015, 10:16 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,837
Posted By Foredeck
It's mainly two things. First, the CS guidelines...

It's mainly two things. First, the CS guidelines say that CS should match standard of living in the two households. But, this is made next to impossible when you involve a second income in both...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-26-2015, 09:07 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,837
Posted By Foredeck
Different standard of living

I've been separated for 5 years, and divorced for a year. Also, we both recently remarried.

We have shared custody with my paying the offset amount of the CS table. I pay all of the extra...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-14-2014, 09:42 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 706
Posted By Foredeck
I think most of it was standard. There was child...

I think most of it was standard. There was child support, with shared custody. It's based on the tables.

There is no SS, and no division of asset (already been done).

There is a separation...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-13-2014, 10:35 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 706
Posted By Foredeck
Conference call with judge

We sent our request for divorce 3 weeks ago. It's an uncontested joint application, and done on our own. Her financial statements were signed by her lawyer, but everything else was done with a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-05-2012, 02:38 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,402
Posted By Foredeck
I asked about bullying or harassment, and nobody...

I asked about bullying or harassment, and nobody thinks that its an issue. They didnt see anything, and actually everybody is extremely nice and friendly at the table.

If I ask if anybody made...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-05-2012, 02:34 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,402
Posted By Foredeck
Those were supplied meals, so the temperature...

Those were supplied meals, so the temperature should be fine.

The only sandwich, other then peanut butter, that she'll eat is a jam sandwich.

I've had no luck with meat, so struggling to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-05-2012, 02:24 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,402
Posted By Foredeck
Shes five years old. The teacher sent a...

Shes five years old.

The teacher sent a heads up, she said that she noticed it, and wanted to let us know. My daughter does get hungry and tired in the after noon, which may be linked.

When I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-05-2012, 02:05 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,402
Posted By Foredeck
Daughter won't eat at school

We just got an email from her teacher, and she says that my daughter doesn't eat at school.

Its food that she likes spaghetti, nuggets,etc, so thats not the reason.

The relationship between her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-25-2012, 03:29 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,395
Posted By Foredeck
Thanks all. It's funny, but most of the...

Thanks all.

It's funny, but most of the problem is, with my expectations.

My ex is great in this regard and treats my girlfriend as a parental figure to my daughter.

With my work...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-25-2012, 10:13 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,395
Posted By Foredeck
Advice from step parents needed

I'm seperated, with a four year old. We have shared custody and it's going fairly well.

However, I'm moving on, and my girlfriend has moved in.

I think it's going towards marriage, so just...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-26-2011, 03:59 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,587
Posted By Foredeck
Shes starting to make a fuss about it. Shes...

Shes starting to make a fuss about it. Shes threatened to go to court to block it, but it won't go that far. She may get lawyers involved or push the fight for another day.

She has issues...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-25-2011, 11:24 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,587
Posted By Foredeck
HammerDad, thanks for the reply. Is it worth the...

HammerDad, thanks for the reply. Is it worth the fight? I think so.

the service bills itself as open to all people who believe in Jesus. I don't want to turn this thread into a religious...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-25-2011, 09:31 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,587
Posted By Foredeck
To be honest, I hadn't had time to go on canlii. ...

To be honest, I hadn't had time to go on canlii. She told me on Sunday evening, and then told me monday that she would escalate it to lawyers.

I peaked at canlii today, and found a case in BC...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-24-2011, 06:31 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,587
Posted By Foredeck
She informed me of her objections yesterday, but...

She informed me of her objections yesterday, but today she said that she has an appointment with her lawyer.

I didn't think I needed case studies,.so I haven't been on canlii yet.
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-24-2011, 02:56 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,587
Posted By Foredeck
But, how can I counter without going to court. ...

But, how can I counter without going to court. Everything I find online is that church and religion is a decision that must be made together.

I'm fine with that. I dont want to convert her, and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-24-2011, 01:23 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,587
Posted By Foredeck
I have shared my view with her,.and...

I have shared my view with her,.and unfortunately, if I dont agree with her request 100%, she views that as me always wanting to be right.

She is going to her lawyer on Friday to add a few points...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-23-2011, 06:00 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,587
Posted By Foredeck
She's four. She's starting to be bilingual,...

She's four.

She's starting to be bilingual, so it shouldnt really be an issue. And, half the people at the new church are french, so she's spoken to in french a lot.

I have no plans to convert...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-23-2011, 03:47 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,587
Posted By Foredeck
Church and joint custody

I've been separated for almost 3 years now.

The relationship between me and my ex is ok, on some days it's pretty good, but other days it's a little rocky. But, on average, I can't complain.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2011, 08:47 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,249
Posted By Foredeck
I'm in NB, and it may be different. It's called...

I'm in NB, and it may be different. It's called a trial, but basically I send in my application, and a clerk presents it to a judge, who either approves it, or modifies it.

I think there's a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2011, 08:30 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,249
Posted By Foredeck
We both had independant legal advice. I...

We both had independant legal advice.

I don't think she'll fight it. I think she'll sign the joint petition to file for divorce. Im getting it ready right now, should bring it to her to sign it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2011, 06:57 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,249
Posted By Foredeck
I believe it's in our daughters best interest to...

I believe it's in our daughters best interest to maintain the current custody. We have shared custody, and it's going very well (considering everything). I'm not too worried about the custody,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2011, 06:34 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,249
Posted By Foredeck
going to trial with my separation agreement

I signed a separation agreement last year, and have been separated for about 2 years.

We have shared custody, which is going well.

She signed that she would not pursue spousal support in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-19-2011, 06:35 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,249
Posted By Foredeck
I have discussed it with her, and she's open to a...

I have discussed it with her, and she's open to a reasonable one.

And, to answer the question, the first divorce didn't cost me much. Total lawyer fees were under 2500$. I'm not interested in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-19-2011, 05:47 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,249
Posted By Foredeck
prenups and second marriage

I'm just finalizing my divorce, signed the separation agreement and about to start the actual divorce process.

In the meantime, I'm about to take the next step with another woman.

I am...
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