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Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2012, 02:08 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,968
Posted By hubby
Ok -- a sign of relief! So if my son should...

Ok -- a sign of relief! So if my son should decide to move in full time -- I deduct that portion of the CS and am now responsible for paying his clothing expenses 100%?

CS was based on 3 young...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-19-2012, 01:55 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,275
Posted By hubby
Am I understanding this correctly - CS Payments...

Am I understanding this correctly - CS Payments cover clothing expenses -- dang, I've been paying CS payments in addition to paying 50% of clothing expenses! Did I get burned?
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-09-2011, 08:47 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,277
Posted By hubby
One eventually ...

gives up the fight, when there is nothing there to fight with. If one fights by the sword, they die by the sword -- if she wants to fight you, its YOUR choice to choose whether to do so ...

I...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-13-2011, 08:18 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,968
Posted By hubby
Thanks Mess

Yes -- CS was paid according to the guidlines of 3 children on a 50/50 based on the differences in incomes of which I'm the higer earning parent.

We've been paying for clothing 50/50 - what threw...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-13-2011, 07:24 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,968
Posted By hubby
I was simply thinking of dividing the CS payments...

I was simply thinking of dividing the CS payments that covers 3 children and removing the payment of one child?

I did not know that my CS payments covered childrens clothing? I paid CS payments...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2011, 04:17 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,376
Posted By hubby
Can one divorce with no legally signed separation agreement?

Hello all --

Separated now 5 years, a partially complete separation agreement not signed -- all assets divided, living in separate homes now for years.

Question is this -- with no legally...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-01-2011, 04:15 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,968
Posted By hubby
He be ...

By eldest son I mean he is now 14.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-01-2011, 04:14 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,968
Posted By hubby
Eldest son wishes to move full time with dad?

Wow, its been a few years since I've been on the forum -- my how time has changed, good to see some old friends still online!

Well, as life would have it -- given time, things do change and i...
Forum: General Chat 08-11-2008, 10:40 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,862
Posted By hubby
It will take TIME

Well, good to be back!

Its been a little over 3 years now since my separation -- expect a roller coaster emotional ride -- I'm just now feeling 'normal' if anyone can really be normal after...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-24-2007, 11:27 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,977
Posted By hubby
Above and beyond CS

Ok ... I've paid her CS support - she goes and buys them clothing with the CS I've given her - I've paid my CS dues.

What she is claiming is that after CS has been paid - if we decide to only buy...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-23-2007, 01:42 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,977
Posted By hubby
Child Support and paying 50% of costs afterwards?

Ok ... can someone clarify something for me.

Based on both my ex and I's salaries - and the fact we are going 50/50 custody - I am paying the ex an amount every month to help with child support. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-20-2007, 08:52 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,415
Posted By hubby
Does this ever end! LOL

Yeah, I know, I have not been here in a while ... missed you ALL bigtime!!!!

Moving on in life, in a much better place emotionally today that I was 2 years ago ... what a ride!

Ex and I are...
Forum: Divorce Support 05-07-2007, 01:12 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 4,898
Posted By hubby
Still around and kickin!

Yep ... still around. Have been physcially separated now for 6 months. It's lonely at times ... but I do know that all happens for a reason.

Have had some revelations in past few months and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-07-2007, 12:59 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 19,429
Posted By hubby
Good to be back!

Well ... I see some new faces and some old!

DD! Got too love you ... you always know how to incite a riot! LOL

Well, having to pay a fortune in CS, my ex asked me to pay for life jackets...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2006, 11:44 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,373
Posted By hubby
Thanks LV.

Thanks LV for the timely input.

Seems my wife will be using my past conduct as not being a 'good/great' father against me to justify custody.

I can attest I was there, maybe not as involved as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2006, 08:16 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,373
Posted By hubby
In a bind, need advice ... FAST!

OK, hold the applause cause I'm back for later ... need some help from my friends!

Quick update:

Matrimonial home sold

Matrimonial assets divided to satisfaction

Equalization payment...
Forum: Divorce Support 11-09-2006, 09:22 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 4,898
Posted By hubby
Take what you must, discard what you will

Take what you must, discard what you will.

There are many paths in life, choose what is best for you.

Peace and Love

Hubby
Forum: General Chat 11-09-2006, 08:54 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,467
Posted By hubby
It was my intention to want to get back together...

It was my intention to want to get back together and work on the marriage. I just don't believe you throw away love without first having given it a chance to mend the past hurts. I am now moving...
Forum: General Chat 11-07-2006, 01:57 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,467
Posted By hubby
Barely

GKTT,

Hey, do I ever know what emotional exhaustion is about, cant get enuff sleep!

Be still and be silent ... is about the best advice I can give during times of turmoil. All comes to pass...
Forum: General Chat 11-06-2006, 11:50 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,467
Posted By hubby
Just dropped in to say hello.

I'm still alive, barely! :)

Hubby
Forum: Divorce Support 08-10-2006, 08:27 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,255
Posted By hubby
Do they REALLY want a divorce?

I've been questioning lately whether my wife REALLY wants a divorce and guess what?

The GOOD Lord provided me an answer today via a post on another board that I would like to share with you all...
Forum: General Chat 08-09-2006, 03:20 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 6,504
Posted By hubby
So does a ring really symbolize anything for a woman?

Found this snipit on another board from long ago ... I'm posting it cause it caused a reaction of truth in my being ... need confirmation from the ladies!

"This is just my personal opinion:

PUT...
Forum: Introductions 08-08-2006, 08:31 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,419
Posted By hubby
Momma3, That is a very tough situation to be...

Momma3,

That is a very tough situation to be in.

1. Read every post you can on these forums, there is a goldmine of information and one should 'educate' themselves as to their rights and...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-04-2006, 02:41 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 1,879
Posted By hubby
Wink Use of the house?

Hey guys and gals,

Need some advice.

As many are aware, I've been crunching numbers based on estimated costs to run two households. Turns out that I as a payor will be running in the red by...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-02-2006, 09:36 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 3,272
Posted By hubby
Calculating Pension values - Rule of thumb

Found this snipit from the web in regards to valuing a Pension - in general.

"Simple rule of thumb when it comes to valuating a pension or a stream of cashflow, “For every $100 per month of...
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