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Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2020, 10:01 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 168
Posted By backinthesaddle
You are charged with domestic violence. Rightly...

You are charged with domestic violence. Rightly or wrongly she is viewed as the victim right now. I would just lay low and do what you can to make it to trial date. Even though there is a trial set...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 12:17 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 104
Posted By backinthesaddle
He pays the current child support but the 7 year...

He pays the current child support but the 7 year old agreement states he must submit Tax info and this was never done. What forms. There are so many. She is only asking that the original court order...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 10:02 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 104
Posted By backinthesaddle
Child Support outdated

Asking for a friend....

Brief 5 year marriage and 2 children. Mom has custody with dad having kids 5 nights a month. 2013 superior court awarded mom child support based on 2013 income. Custody...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 09:48 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 168
Posted By backinthesaddle
Custody and possession of home

Does she have interim possession of the matrimonial home or is your release condition on the charges that you simply cannot go to the home? Depending on the facts in issue....was your ex injured,...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2020, 02:08 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,155
Posted By backinthesaddle
Yes you can most definitely. You just canít claim...

Yes you can most definitely. You just canít claim the same child. Odd/even refers to a situation whereby there is only one child to claim between the parents. You alternate who claims the child.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2020, 12:25 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,155
Posted By backinthesaddle
Sa

You can only claim one as eligible dependent so you or your ex canít claim more than one child. I would make it easier and say the younger two that are twins and that way there is never any...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-16-2020, 08:33 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 575
Posted By backinthesaddle
Moving forward

Your mom needs support. I admire you for stepping up as painful as this is because it is your family. I am not sure if you are in Ottawa or not but if so you can go to the police (specifically their...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2020, 08:01 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,155
Posted By backinthesaddle
Alternating years

For those wondering how to outline it in a SA. Presently I claim one child and ex claims another. You can only claim one dependent anyway. In 2023 one will be 18 and my agreement states in that year...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-04-2020, 10:53 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 89
Posted By backinthesaddle
Business joint ownership

Just wondering what happens in a situation whereby there is joint ownership of a business? One spouse is the skilled worker (trades) and the other really has no role and only owner on paper. Is the...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-04-2020, 10:37 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 226
Posted By backinthesaddle
Ex and I just signed our separation agreement....

Ex and I just signed our separation agreement. NFP was a wash as we couldn't agree on the numbers we each put forward but we did agree on the final amount we each are entitled to. We each put forward...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-04-2020, 12:09 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 766
Posted By backinthesaddle
Criminal court and specifically domestic abuse is...

Criminal court and specifically domestic abuse is part of my job so I can give you some insight on what could happen. Family Court...I don't know much and only what many confide in me and my...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-02-2020, 12:18 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 403
Posted By backinthesaddle
It depends how the RESP was handled in your...

It depends how the RESP was handled in your agreement and how schooling is to be paid for. Is it your responsibility to pay for her entire post secondary education? Was it agreed that you contribute...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-31-2019, 01:46 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 181
Posted By backinthesaddle
I think what it implies that any gift of monetary...

I think what it implies that any gift of monetary value cannot be included as spouse"income" when the annual adjustment is calculated for child and spousal support. It also implies that neither...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-24-2019, 09:17 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 526
Posted By backinthesaddle
Can you remortgage the home? Pay off debt and...

Can you remortgage the home? Pay off debt and start the ball rolling for equalization and legal separation with documented financials. If he doesn't have proof of income you may be out of luck with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2019, 09:13 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 412
Posted By backinthesaddle
Take it from someone who has been there. Leave...

Take it from someone who has been there. Leave now. Don't put yourself, your spouse and your kids through this. I waited and it has been a financial nightmare. Had I left years ago the kids would be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2019, 09:05 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 602
Posted By backinthesaddle
Our divorce and matrimonial laws in a divorce can...

Our divorce and matrimonial laws in a divorce can override the title decision. The matrimonial home is the one special asset and doesn't matter whose name is on title. Joint tenants and tenants in...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-23-2019, 09:41 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 155
Posted By backinthesaddle
Post Changing title on title etc.

Ex and I just signed separation documents. He gets the rental house and I get the matrimonial home. I got my signed copy and then applied for a mortgage on my own. I had a lot of documents to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-12-2019, 12:38 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 304
Posted By backinthesaddle
What happens at a Standstill?

Ex and I agree on kids and agreed to most financial terms of our separations agreement. His lawyer is a front man only and the agreements he sends my lawyer all need revision and its clear he is cut...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-05-2019, 05:56 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 268
Posted By backinthesaddle
I was reading your post and thought I wrote it...

I was reading your post and thought I wrote it for a minute. We have the same ex. Iíve just spent 5k for nothing. He has a lawyer that is a paper front man only. So isnít being honest with him about...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-05-2019, 03:51 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 268
Posted By backinthesaddle
Osap

OSAP doesnít need a separation agreement. I filled out the application and my son gets OSAP. Just fill it out as separated.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-04-2019, 03:26 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 585
Posted By backinthesaddle
Total scam on form

So, I got it back to review. My name is wrong on it...His 2018 80K vehicle is listed as a 15 yr old beater. No mention of the 15k second car he owns. No mention of joint accounts. No mention of his...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-02-2019, 01:50 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 271
Posted By backinthesaddle
Clarify

At the moment custody is 50/50. I make more on paper but take home is equal due to disability payments and now Iím paying to pension and dues etc. He still pays into the pension but insurance does...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-02-2019, 10:36 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 271
Posted By backinthesaddle
How is need determined for spousal support?

We are going back and forth on our separation agreement. We were amicable until ex decided I didn't deserve anything because I didn't work full time. However, I worked part time for ten years of our...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-29-2019, 09:27 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 717
Posted By backinthesaddle
Update

I finally got through all the equalization paperwork and it was decided through lawyers that the estimated amount I would pay in capital gains is deducted from the total amount of equity we have then...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-29-2019, 09:22 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 656
Posted By backinthesaddle
Moving into a rental property doesn't negate...

Moving into a rental property doesn't negate capital gains. I own several rental properties. I moved into one. One must pay capital gains on the increased value up until the time you move into it and...
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